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Exactly. As long as some COOL poster keeps his profile pic up, how can't we not fantasize. Besides, once the fantasy is acted out, all the fun is gone.
I agree once acted out- excitement is over and regret sets in!
but have you ever seen a guy/ girl that you are so physically attracted to you just want to "jump on them"- for lack of better words but you still love your spouse and still want to be with them?
but have you ever seen a guy/ girl that you are so physically attracted to you just want to "jump on them"- for lack of better words but you still love your spouse and still want to be with them?
Yes, and I have. Not jumped on them, but weakened, indulged, and the truth of it is, the experiences were sublime. More than just the physical, because I am one who can't help but cross over into the emotional if I'm with a girl more than a few times.
What's the answer? I don't know. But I do know that were the situations reversed I wouldn't like it and I doubt if you would either. You have to get to the point where you are loyal to somebody. The funny thing is I think, that if and when we do get to that point we find out that physical faithfulness is the least of the challenges. The profound stuff comes later, when you're faced with the challenge of being loyal emotionally, to standing by your SO when much more is at stake.
I think that if you feel the need to fulfill your excitement with having an affair, thats when the "role play" comes in. Ya` know, the "handyman" or the "girl next door."
I think that if you feel the need to fulfill your excitement with having an affair, thats when the "role play" comes in. Ya` know, the "handyman" or the "girl next door."
LOL.......... They have to be under 80 though?LOL......... JK
My husband says when he thinks about fooling around his next thought is always of him sitting in a little apartment with a big child support payment due.
I think about all the misery it would cause everyone, but especially our daughter.
So, yeah, I think most people think about it. But however exciting and fun it might be for a little while would be more than outweighed by the long term destruction of a family.
but have you ever seen a guy that you are so physically attracted to you just want to "jump on them"- for lack of better words but you still love your spouse and still want to be with them?
My husband says when he thinks about fooling around his next thought is always of him sitting in a little apartment with a big child support payment due.
I think about all the misery it would cause everyone, but especially our daughter.
So, yeah, I think most people think about it. But however exciting and fun it might be for a little while would be more than outweighed by the long term destruction of a family.
It's really true. Once you have a kid most of your "decisions" should be made with their best interests in mind. Problem is, many times when we are in one of those situations, we aren't deciding as much as going on impulse. We are all vulnerable, I do believe, but most of us do what's right most of the time. I love kids, all kids. They deserve much better than we give them. But I don't know what to do about that either.
LOL.......... They have to be under 80 though?LOL......... JK
Of course! Handymen aren`t 80?
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LOL......... JK
