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I met this new female online and we chatted on email for a while and then we exchanged numbers. So when she left her number she said-"feel free to call"
So when I call and introduce myself she says-"Is it ok if I give you a call back I'm on the phone?
I said-"SURE!!
When she called back of course I didn't answer because why do I want to give off the vibe that I have no life or no other options and was just sitting here waiting for her to call me back. I know some of you may disagree that it's childish games but I'm not going to be TOO AVAILABLE anymore when it comes to getting to know someone. She had her shot to talk to me tonight and didn't take advantage of it and now will have to talk to me another time.
That is the new me in this new year.
And ladies please don' t act like you wouldn't have ignored the call if a guy said the same thing when you called for the first time.
I thought dating was all about playing games? Years ago I would have ANSWERED the phone which would have shown I had nothing else to move on to.
That's not the case tonight. And it's tough because she is HOT and I'm used to making myself available all the time for an attrctive women but I now understand that I have to be different.
Why did you call her if you didn't want her to think you were interested???
I'm not saying I want her to think I'm not interested by not picking up the phone. I just want her to know that i'm currently UNAVAILABLE.
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