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I was just on Facebook (evil, evil Facebook lol ) and I stumbled across some photos of my ex boyfriend and first love, who I dated for 2 years about 10 years ago.
I started looking at his friends list (I know, I know, I shouldn't be snooping!) and was surprised and a little hurt to find that he is still in contact with all of his exes BUT me. One girl in particular who he still seems to be very close with - she was his girlfriend before me. I am not sure how to feel about this. Obviously he is my ex for a reason, but I still feel a tinge of hurt/insult. We didn't end badly.
I was just on Facebook (evil, evil Facebook lol ) and I stumbled across some photos of my ex boyfriend and first love, who I dated for 2 years about 10 years ago.
I started looking at his friends list (I know, I know, I shouldn't be snooping!) and was surprised and a little hurt to find that he is still in contact with all of his exes BUT me. One girl in particular who he still seems to be very close with - she was his girlfriend before me. I am not sure how to feel about this. Obviously he is my ex for a reason, but I still feel a tinge of hurt/insult. We didn't end badly.
Am I being silly?
Yes. Get a new hobby. No way should an ex's current actions affect you in any way.
I don't know how to answer this--I really didn't have the Internet for most of my life, so I wouldn't have their information, ordinarily. Most of my ex-girlfriends wouldn't have my email address TO add me, if they themselves are online.
Wow! Yeah, I think you're being kinda silly. It really is sad that you feel upset about this. I don't know what to say. I hope you can get over it soon. If you can, just put it behind you.
I guess I haven't had that many breakups that "didn't end badly." I mean, I leave and don't want to talk to them or have anything to do with them, especially after I'm in another relationship.
I've never thought of looking one up on Facebook or Twitter. But you just gave me an idea.
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