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Old 01-20-2010, 04:44 AM
 
Location: The cupboard under the sink
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I could see your point in complaining if he'd deleted just your post.

I suspect that if he's actively dating, he doesn't want to create any complications by having many posts from females on his page.

Look how many posts there are on here about "my boy/girlfriend has many friends of the opposite sex. I am untrusting and jealous, and can't believe they aren't sleeping with them".

Personally ?

Storm in a teacup. forget about it.

Find a real issue to care about.
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Old 01-20-2010, 06:15 AM
 
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Why on earth would you have some guy on your FB that you barely know anyway? Much less someone you just dated ONCE. Yeesh!
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Old 01-20-2010, 07:22 AM
 
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Why on earth would you have some guy on your FB that you barely know anyway? Much less someone you just dated ONCE. Yeesh!
Most people my age will say things like "Are you on Facebook?" or just find you. I don't think it's a problem.
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Old 01-20-2010, 07:26 AM
 
Location: Baltimore, MD
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I say unless you two are in an exclusive relationship, its best not to leave public comments like that on his wall because at this point, all options are still open.
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Old 01-20-2010, 07:34 AM
 
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I say unless you two are in an exclusive relationship, its best not to leave public comments like that on his wall because at this point, all options are still open.
I would say just not even bother checking out someones facebook when you've just started dating.

I dunno, maybe its me, but it seems like facebook creates more problems than anything. I mean I can understand families keeping in touch with pictures, etc.... who are hundreds of miles apart, but certainly not someone within your own vicinity.
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Old 01-20-2010, 07:35 AM
 
Location: 2nd state in the union...
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I know I shouldn't take FB seriously, but it does seem really fishy when you leave someone you are seeing a comment on their wall about when you are going to see a movie with them, and then they delete it along with other wall comments from girls.

This is the cupcake guy. He won't get a cupcake now. I am a woman scorned!
You forgot to add that you also made a reference to bringing him cupcakes when you left that comment As I posted in your other thread, I can certainly understand him deleting it. The movie part of the comment - eh, that might not be so bad. But to post about the cupcake? Not so much.

As for him deleting comments from other girls - so what? Honestly, I think it's a little odd that you knew he deleted them in the first place. I don't know about other regular Facebook users, but I don't read the comments on other peoples' pages so closely that I would automatically know they had been deleted.

So I assume now that this is all over that you have deleted him from Facebook?
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Old 01-20-2010, 07:47 AM
 
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Is there any reasons he shouldn't delete the comment? I mean something as personal as that doesn't concern my friends etc so I wouldn't leave it for them to find... He got the message so no reason to let it sit there for everyone to see...
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Old 01-20-2010, 07:51 AM
 
Location: North Carolina
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You've went on ONE date with him!

He's NOT your BF. Clingy women give all women a bad name. Please stop it. LOL
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Old 01-20-2010, 07:51 AM
 
Location: Harrisonburg, VA
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This isn't going to end well....
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Old 01-20-2010, 07:57 AM
 
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Most people my age will say things like "Are you on Facebook?" or just find you. I don't think it's a problem.
But why do you want to add someone you barely know to your contacts? People have to earn the right to "join the club." They don't get admission right off the bat...you shouldn't be such an open book with your innermost circle with relative strangers, is all...

It's called discretion. Sure it's cool, everybody's friends, buddy, buddy...as you get older you'll see the differences in people and how they interact in groups and who gets to know what about you...

Well, good luck!
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