Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.
Stop with this nonsense of waiting on a man to approach you. It makes no sense whatsoever.
If you want a new job, what do you do? You look for it.
When you want to try a new restaurant, what do you do? You look for one.
When you're in need of a nice pair of shoes, what do you do? You look for them.
When you're looking for travel deals, what do you do? You get online and look for them.
But when it comes to having a good man in your life, you wait until he appears and approaches you. Does that make sense? If you want a good man in your life do what you've been doing with everything else.......go looking.
Don't give me that crap about not wanting to appear desperate. If you lost your job, would you say, " I'm' not going to look for a new one because I do not want to appear desperate? " of course not.
Lord knows you better not say "oh, I'm just to old fashioned to do that "...........YEAH RIGHT! Your grandmother may have been old fashioned BUT YOU ARE NOT. I don't care how good it sounds coming out of you mouth.
Stop with the nonsense and go look for a man and approach a guy you think fits what you're looking for.
Many of you women that WANT to be in a relationship are single because you're waiting on him and not looking for and approaching him.
I'm finished with my rant for tonight.
Current gf of 11 months contacted me. If she hadn't there is a reasonable chance I might not have come across her profile. She contacted me the day after I put my profile back up. It has worked out well for both of us.
Personally, if YOU aren't doing some contacting you are hurting your chances IMHO.
Women like it when the man leads. They like assertive and confident guys who will guide the encounters and the happenings in a relationship. It makes them swoon and gets them wet. I know I know...it's stupid. But, it's how they are. It's Woman 101.
Ron, are you serious??
Good men are all taken already… what is left? Mentally disturbed, sex maniacs, egocentrics, hypochondriacs, old bachelors with bad habits, widows still grieving, parasites, guys who want a wife like their mother, rotten spoiled brats and losers.
Feel free do add some more…
Ouch. lol.
Speaking as a widower, the whole grieving thing isn't permanent.
Oh, I am a platonic sex maniac though but I haven't received complaints about that.
Women like it when the man leads. They like assertive and confident guys who will guide the encounters and the happenings in a relationship. It makes them swoon and gets them wet. I know I know...it's stupid. But, it's how they are. It's Woman 101.
that is bek when it goes wrong, its all about him, he swept me off my feet i didnt know what i was doing.
the aggressor is always at a disadvantage.
women are way ahead of the game, let him make the 1st move.
Quote:
Originally Posted by elnina Ron, are you serious??
Good men are all taken already… what is left? Mentally disturbed, sex maniacs, egocentrics, hypochondriacs, old bachelors with bad habits, widows still grieving, parasites, guys who want a wife like their mother, rotten spoiled brats and losers.
Feel free do add some more…
Quote:
Originally Posted by princesasabia
lol! So true, I also want to add men with kids, and men who dont now wtf they want in life or a relationship!
Its been so long since I flipped into this category that I can't remember when it happened.
Ron, you totally annoy me more than TVGUY now. AND yes, I will avoid your posts and not make comments on them again. Peace, love and happiness to you.....
Ron, are you serious?? Good men are all taken already… what is left? Mentally disturbed, sex maniacs, egocentrics, hypochondriacs, old bachelors with bad habits, widows still grieving, parasites, guys who want a wife like their mother, rotten spoiled brats and losers.
Feel free do add some more…
Not sure if serious.
In that case guys should all give up too since all the good women are taken and all that's left are mtv-watching sorority girls, "big boned" fat girls who won't workout insisting that its genetics (in before I get flamed TO DEATH for saying this) or golddiggers.
At least you guys have a variety of personality flaws to choose from
Ron, you totally annoy me more than TVGUY now. AND yes, I will avoid your posts and not make comments on them again. Peace, love and happiness to you.....
Yippie!
Get in line.
Please register to post and access all features of our very popular forum. It is free and quick. Over $68,000 in prizes has already been given out to active posters on our forum. Additional giveaways are planned.
Detailed information about all U.S. cities, counties, and zip codes on our site: City-data.com.
Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.
