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In March of last year I met this guy.. His name was Juan. He was really nice and made me feel different. There was just a small problem.. Well he had a girlfriend. So he's not precisely my ex. I just didn't know how else to put it.. lol
At the time him and her were not serious at all. I started liking him and would spend more time with him. I really enjoyed being by his side and I let him know. He told me he liked me and that he never talked to a girl the way he did with me but that he was going to try and make it work with her.
Long story short.. The drama began. I tried to stop talking to him but i just simply could not. I seen this guy cry for me and I'm sure he did feel something for me but he wasn't willing to stand up for it. So one day he finally told me to leave him alone and I sure did.
During all of this. I started getting really close to one of his best friends. This was like around May. This guys name is Jose. He became my best friend. I would tell him everything and he would always be by my side. I talked to him everyday and one day realized that i liked him. It was very hard on me. I mean it was just something so unexpected and that wasn't supposed to happen and that i didn't want to happen but I couldn't do anything about it. For about 3 months I never told him how i felt. Simply because i didn't want to ruin our friendship because i don't know what i would do without this guy by my side.
On 01/02/2010.. we kissed and on 1/02 he asked me to be his girlfriend. I completely adore this guy. He means everything to me and we are really trying to make this work. I know his friends probably talk bad about him.. since i was messing around with one of them.
I mean even i feel kind of weird at times but i can't go back in time and change anything.
It makes me feel bad.. and I don't know how to deal with it.
I don't really think you should feel wrong. You were not in a relationship with the other guy, he was already taken and just keeping his options open. He walked away for whatever reason and his friend happened to see that there was something there. Guys talk, Im sure he confronted him about it at some point and if you guys stayed friends for that long without any sort of affection than he seems to be someone to hold on to. Good luck, dont dwell on someone from your past, just go with it, have fun and enjoy your time together!!
In March of last year I met this guy.. His name was Juan. He was really nice and made me feel different. There was just a small problem.. Well he had a girlfriend. So he's not precisely my ex. I just didn't know how else to put it.. lol
At the time him and her were not serious at all. I started liking him and would spend more time with him. I really enjoyed being by his side and I let him know. He told me he liked me and that he never talked to a girl the way he did with me but that he was going to try and make it work with her.
Long story short.. The drama began. I tried to stop talking to him but i just simply could not. I seen this guy cry for me and I'm sure he did feel something for me but he wasn't willing to stand up for it. So one day he finally told me to leave him alone and I sure did.
During all of this. I started getting really close to one of his best friends. This was like around May. This guys name is Jose. He became my best friend. I would tell him everything and he would always be by my side. I talked to him everyday and one day realized that i liked him. It was very hard on me. I mean it was just something so unexpected and that wasn't supposed to happen and that i didn't want to happen but I couldn't do anything about it. For about 3 months I never told him how i felt. Simply because i didn't want to ruin our friendship because i don't know what i would do without this guy by my side.
On 01/02/2010.. we kissed and on 1/02 he asked me to be his girlfriend. I completely adore this guy. He means everything to me and we are really trying to make this work. I know his friends probably talk bad about him.. since i was messing around with one of them.
I mean even i feel kind of weird at times but i can't go back in time and change anything.
It makes me feel bad.. and I don't know how to deal with it.
You feel quilty and bad because the othe dude was or is his buddy but listen that other jerk had or still has a litttle girlfriend and was cheating on her with you. He would of done the same to you probably and why want another girl's sloppy seconds anyways I am glad you are with someone else even if it's his friend or not... Who cares the other one was a jerk like I said before he was playing both of you then when he couldn't handle it anymore got out of the kitchen.
Enjoy your life now with the current boyfriend he was there when you were hurting over the other one so he is the one for you right now not the other little player. Get it. Good
I don't know whether it's wrong or not quite honestly... What I do know is that this question and it's consequences should be weighing MUCH more on your new boyfriend than on you.... You're out of the relationship now and aren't required to have ANY loyalty to your ex... The friend however??
My only advice to you is to prepare yourself for a lot of drama. I've never dated best friends but I did find myself dating an old friend of a guy I had been seeing. They grew up together and still associated with each other every now and then. I had no idea and was caught in the middle. In the end, I left it all alone.
In March of last year I met this guy.. His name was Juan. He was really nice and made me feel different. There was just a small problem.. Well he had a girlfriend. So he's not precisely my ex. I just didn't know how else to put it.. lol
At the time him and her were not serious at all. I started liking him and would spend more time with him. I really enjoyed being by his side and I let him know. He told me he liked me and that he never talked to a girl the way he did with me but that he was going to try and make it work with her.
Long story short.. The drama began. I tried to stop talking to him but i just simply could not. I seen this guy cry for me and I'm sure he did feel something for me but he wasn't willing to stand up for it. So one day he finally told me to leave him alone and I sure did.
During all of this. I started getting really close to one of his best friends. This was like around May. This guys name is Jose. He became my best friend. I would tell him everything and he would always be by my side. I talked to him everyday and one day realized that i liked him. It was very hard on me. I mean it was just something so unexpected and that wasn't supposed to happen and that i didn't want to happen but I couldn't do anything about it. For about 3 months I never told him how i felt. Simply because i didn't want to ruin our friendship because i don't know what i would do without this guy by my side.
On 01/02/2010.. we kissed and on 1/02 he asked me to be his girlfriend. I completely adore this guy. He means everything to me and we are really trying to make this work. I know his friends probably talk bad about him.. since i was messing around with one of them.
I mean even i feel kind of weird at times but i can't go back in time and change anything.
It makes me feel bad.. and I don't know how to deal with it.
Another teenager coming here asking for someone to say "it's OK" so she doesn't have to face the guilt over her clearly reprehensible behavior.
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I am glad you are with someone else even if it's his friend or not... Who cares the other one was a jerk like I said before he was playing both of you then when he couldn't handle it anymore got out of the kitchen.
