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Ok, so the girl I formally liked, up and decided to ask me if I wanted to see Dear Joe with her since she was like her friends didn't want to see it with her. I said sure, I guess. Didn't ask when she's going or even tell her when I'm off again.
Well, basically, I've lost interest in her and one part of me is saying go and give it another shot while another part of me is saying no, don't go because there are several girls I'm currently interested in, but the main thing is I'm really focused on transferring schools and I don't want anything to hold me back.
Sometimes friends go to the movies. I am a girl and sometimes I go to movies with my male friends as friends.
If you really have no interest in her romantically, then just say it's great that you two are getting to have some friend time. If you have no interest in her as a friend either, decline.
You could also suggest a double feature and go to something you want to see (same day or at a later date). After all, that sounds like SUCH a chick movie.
Well, I had interest in her before, but she made excuses, so I finally managed to move on. Don't get the wrong impression, I don't mind being friends with girls, but I'm not the type to be surrounded by girls and be friends with all of them if you know what I mean.
Don't know, maybe I'll weedle some more info out of her tomorrow.
Well, I had interest in her before, but she made excuses, so I finally managed to move on. Don't get the wrong impression, I don't mind being friends with girls, but I'm not the type to be surrounded by girls and be friends with all of them if you know what I mean.
Don't know, maybe I'll weedle some more info out of her tomorrow.
Based on what you've said about her in the past, I'm not sure that going to the movie with her is a good idea.
I had previously been all about giving her a chance but I'm afraid that if you DO go to the movie, you'll wind up in the same state you were a couple of weeks back - driving yourself crazy wondering what's going on, etc. Do you want to go through all of that again?
Ok, so the girl I formally liked, up and decided to ask me if I wanted to see Dear Joe with her since she was like her friends didn't want to see it with her. I said sure, I guess. Didn't ask when she's going or even tell her when I'm off again.
Well, basically, I've lost interest in her and one part of me is saying go and give it another shot while another part of me is saying no, don't go because there are several girls I'm currently interested in, but the main thing is I'm really focused on transferring schools and I don't want anything to hold me back.
I would only go if you informally liked her - you know, casually. Otherwise ... forget it!
FYI, the movie is called "Dear John" LOL but anyway... if you are not interested in seeing someone, then don't go. You should never just go along with something because you may feel bad about saying no. Just be honest and it will work better for you.
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