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Old 02-07-2010, 12:46 PM
 
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okay, so i've been with this guy for a year and 4 months now. & at first my parents liked him, he could come over whenever! but then we started getting intimate and they found out and didnt like that, and now he's about to turn 18 & i'll be 15 for another two months after he turns 18. once i'm 16 could he still get in trouble for dating me? :/
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Old 02-07-2010, 12:50 PM
 
Location: 39 20' 59"N / 75 30' 53"W
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It's not the dating he could get in trouble for, it's the intimacy.
Have your parents talked about birth control or are they against your having sexual relations?


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okay, so i've been with this guy for a year and 4 months now. & at first my parents liked him, he could come over whenever! but then we started getting intimate and they found out and didnt like that, and now he's about to turn 18 & i'll be 15 for another two months after he turns 18. once i'm 16 could he still get in trouble for dating me? :/
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Old 02-07-2010, 12:51 PM
 
Location: Sunny Florida
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The dating isn't the issue, it's the sex. In many states once a male turns 18 it is considered statutory rape if he has sex with a minor. I'd suggest you find out what the laws are in your state.
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Old 02-07-2010, 12:59 PM
 
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okay, so i've been with this guy for a year and 4 months now. & at first my parents liked him, he could come over whenever! but then we started getting intimate and they found out and didnt like that, and now he's about to turn 18 & i'll be 15 for another two months after he turns 18. once i'm 16 could he still get in trouble for dating me? :/
Yes. It's called statutory rape, though the age may differ from state to state on how young you have to be for him to be in trouble.

You are very young and I do hope are aware of the serious potential consequences of having sex at this age. Are you at least on birth control pills and using condoms too?
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Old 02-07-2010, 01:57 PM
 
Location: Tennessee
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Yes!
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Old 02-07-2010, 03:00 PM
 
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The dating isn't the issue, it's the sex. In many states once a male turns 18 it is considered statutory rape if he has sex with a minor. I'd suggest you find out what the laws are in your state.
Exactly.

And good for your parents for not approving.
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Old 02-07-2010, 03:15 PM
 
Location: SE Florida
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Depends on the state your in, but honestly if you were my kid, I would only allow supervised dating. At 15 you should not and do not need to be having sex.
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Old 02-07-2010, 03:18 PM
 
Location: Northside Of Jacksonville
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Of course he could get locked up for the simple fact that he's 18 and you're 15....Goodness, fast little heifers
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Old 02-07-2010, 04:32 PM
 
Location: 39 20' 59"N / 75 30' 53"W
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OP hasn't returned..... possibly her parents have threatened to press charges once her boyfriend turns 18...
he becomes a sex offender for the same thing he could get away with at 17. Doesn't seem fair,
but unfortunately that's how it works.
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Old 02-07-2010, 04:35 PM
 
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OP hasn't returned..... possibly her parents have threatened to press charges once her boyfriend turns 18...
he becomes a sex offender for the same thing he could get away with at 17. Doesn't seem fair,
but unfortunately that's how it works.
it's still bullsht. If she is that insistant on being sexually active on other people's expense, I know of a Brazilian porn start that may level her out. Sorry, this really pisses me off.
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