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Old 02-19-2010, 10:34 AM
 
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I never knew alot of men and women felt this way..If I find out that a guy I'm feeling has a girlfriend, I'll move on.. but my friends and peers (both men and women) think that they're still fair game..especially if the girlfriend is someone unknown.

I swear sometimes I feel like I was born on Neptune

What do you think, and please be honest?

 
Old 02-19-2010, 10:37 AM
 
Location: NYC
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Personally I move on... BUT those in the fair game camp have their point. I can see maybe handing off a phone number and saying, "Call or text me if your situation changes."
 
Old 02-19-2010, 10:40 AM
 
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I never knew alot of men and women felt this way..If I find out that a guy I'm feeling has a girlfriend, I'll move on.. but my friends and peers (both men and women) think that they're still fair game..especially if the girlfriend is someone unknown.

I swear sometimes I feel like I was born on Neptune

What do you think, and please be honest?
I'd move on. I have too much integrity to do something like that. It shows character and that you have respect for others.

There are lots of single unattached people to meet.
 
Old 02-19-2010, 10:42 AM
 
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I wouldn't want someone doing that to me if I were the gf. *mad face*
 
Old 02-19-2010, 10:44 AM
 
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I never knew alot of men and women felt this way..If I find out that a guy I'm feeling has a girlfriend, I'll move on.. but my friends and peers (both men and women) think that they're still fair game..especially if the girlfriend is someone unknown.

I swear sometimes I feel like I was born on Neptune

What do you think, and please be honest?

No, if somebody tells me that they have a boyfriend I throw them one more genuine, non sexual compliment. Then I go back to my bar stool and cry.
 
Old 02-19-2010, 10:46 AM
 
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Personally I move on... BUT those in the fair game camp have their point. I can see maybe handing off a phone number and saying, "Call or text me if your situation changes."
I agree. Taken is taken, but the above can be okay. That's how my husband and I ended up together.
 
Old 02-19-2010, 10:47 AM
 
Location: Hot Springs, AR
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It's up to the person in the relationship to decide whether they are still "up for grabs". It depends on how serious the relationship is or what the arrangement is and only they know that. Personally, I feel the fewer people involved, the better. I vote for moving on just because I don't want the drama.
 
Old 02-19-2010, 10:47 AM
 
Location: Tempe, AZ
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I think you and I are both Neptunians. Anyone in a relationship goes in my, "Nice guy, but taken" box
 
Old 02-19-2010, 10:48 AM
 
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I never knew alot of men and women felt this way..If I find out that a guy I'm feeling has a girlfriend, I'll move on.
Is that new slang Im not aware of? If not and I were into going around feeling guys and they let me know they had a girlfriend, I would definately move on to the next one?
 
Old 02-19-2010, 10:50 AM
 
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Is that new slang Im not aware of? If not and I were into going around feeling guys and they let me know they had a girlfriend, I would definately move on to the next one?

Nice try. That was not funny.

Essentially what she's saying is, someone she's attracted to. You know what it means you're just trying to be funny.
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