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me and my gf are 20 yrs old and in college. we've been together for about 4 years now. shes asked me on more than one occasion to move in together, but ive told her that its something i dont think im ready for. she took it in a bad way and made her really sad and has caused problems between us....what can i do for her to understand me?
See, otherwise you two will probably get involved in a long, drawn-out discussion of life goals and personality differences and who left the seat up, all of which is a real downer.
Sometimes it's just best to give the lady what she wants.
Tell her you have herpies. Lol, if you're not ready then you're not ready. If she can't understand that, then too bad for her. You're not married with babies, there is no reason to live together.
She's a 20-year old brat. She won't understand, just cry and manipulate you, and when that doesn't work, she'll intentionally let herself get knocked up. Don't fall for it. Double-bag it, by the way.
Don't EVER move in with some girl unless it's your own idea. You're not ready, you're not ready. And if she continues to cry over it, that just shows you how immature and unready she is herself for a mature romantic relationship. And tell her so.
DON'T FALL FOR IT.
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