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I don't see the point in seeking something out, when there are other things to pursue.
I don't go out much, most of my time is spent at work and studies. I'm not the life of the party, I like being around people, but i kind of just listen and not be engaging. So the chances of meeting somebody cannot be high, can they?
My main focuses now are career and studies. But career more so. I think my bosses at work see a lot of potential in me (I'm learning about strategic human resource management at class now, so for all I know I am in my company's talent management database), and i have been doing well at late. I just need to be able to consistently maintain this level, and things there would be sweet.
Nope. You're career-focused, nothing wrong with that. I'm the same way so that's why I'm not involved with anyone right now. Keep doing what you do. Besides, with everything I'm well on my way to accomplishing right now, a woman is the LEAST of my worries.
I wouldn't say you've 'given up on love'. You're just doing other stuff. I've found the less you look, the more likely that someone will come along. But you've decided to stop worrying so much and focus on other areas of your life, and I reckon that's the best thing a person can for themselves.
(Long way of saying no, you're not the only person to realize this).
I wouldn't say you've 'given up on love'. You're just doing other stuff. I've found the less you look, the more likely that someone will come along. But you've decided to stop worrying so much and focus on other areas of your life, and I reckon that's the best thing a person can for themselves.
(Long way of saying no, you're not the only person to realize this).
Exactly. Love has a way of finding you when you least expect it. That's not to say you should yoke up any old thing that comes along.
Nothing wrong with getting your career on track and looking towards the future. Try to keep an open mind on the love thing. No sense shutting yourself out.
not a chance. not bek its not pointless- it probably is pointless, but as i do the check list of character flaws that must be repaired b4 i would ever be considered fit material, i get a wonderful opportunity for some self improvement. its ok to motivate yourself with non existent carrots.
If you want to focus on your career that's your choice. Just know that no one who came before you ever said on their death bed: "I wish I had worked more."
If you want to focus on your career that's your choice. Just know that no one who came before you ever said on their death bed: "I wish I had worked more."
I know that's a popular cliche. However, I'll bet there ARE people who died destitute and wished they'd applied themselves more and developed their talents. You do have control over your accomplishments, in that regard, and you can be content and happy on your own as an intelligent, accomplished and secure individual.
Finding love, however, can be fickle and elusive because it depends on other people, many of whom do not have your best intentions at heart and are only trying to benefit themselves.
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However, I'll bet there ARE people who died destitute and wished they'd applied themselves more and developed their talents. You do have control over your accomplishments, in that regard, and you can be content and happy on your own as an intelligent, accomplished and secure individual.
