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i stopped dating this guy coz he made a move on me in my own apartment. i honestly felt creeped out since i dont know him that well, it was only our 2nd date. plus he is not my type, and am not attracted to him in ANY level. i only went out with him coz well, he ask me out.
If you guys can't wait to just try and get us in the sack, isn't that an insult?
I don't think I find it flattering, because shouldn't you be attracted to ME and my personality enough to not want so bad to jump in the sack?
It is really weird these last few months.....spring is in the air or something...
I am trying to dress as geeky as possible, sweater vests, collars etc, not showing any skin etc, and it seems worse every day the amount trying to get in there....
I am feeling sad about it.
Men like to F--- attractive women. It doesn't matter how modestly one dresses. They want to f you, I don't even know what you look like, yet I am not surprised.
If you guys can't wait to just try and get us in the sack, isn't that an insult?
I don't think I find it flattering, because shouldn't you be attracted to ME and my personality enough to not want so bad to jump in the sack?
It is really weird these last few months.....spring is in the air or something...
I am trying to dress as geeky as possible, sweater vests, collars etc, not showing any skin etc, and it seems worse every day the amount trying to get in there....
I am feeling sad about it.
Anyone else see this as almost subtle arrogance?
I bet a lot of girls would kill to trade spots with you. How about a nice decline on these guys advances. How do you know they don't get upset after you reject them? Especially when you're harsh about it.
I bet a lot of girls would kill to trade spots with you. How about a nice decline on these guys advances. How do you know they don't get upset after you reject them? Especially when you're harsh about it.
I dunno, maybe or maybe not. Hell, a 25 year old woman who ranks a 4 out of 10 among her peers is going to have a ton of men trying to have sex with her. This thread is the equivalent of complaining that when you walk out in the rain, you get wet. No sense in taking it personally.
I dunno, maybe or maybe not. Hell, a 25 year old woman who ranks a 4 out of 10 among her peers is going to have a ton of men trying to have sex with her. This thread is the equivalent of complaining that when you walk out in the rain, you get wet. No sense in taking it personally.
I guess, but it sounds insincere if you ask me, as if the OP is trying to brag about how easily she can get a guy while playing it off as if she's annoyed by it. Maybe I'm dead wrong in her intentions.
If you guys can't wait to just try and get us in the sack, isn't that an insult?
I don't think I find it flattering, because shouldn't you be attracted to ME and my personality enough to not want so bad to jump in the sack?
It is really weird these last few months.....spring is in the air or something...
I am trying to dress as geeky as possible, sweater vests, collars etc, not showing any skin etc, and it seems worse every day the amount trying to get in there....
I am feeling sad about it.
A man is a man is a man! The weight room in the gym (OMGosh)! Normally, it's like two women...including me. Nothing, but eyes the entire time. I tune it out. Some men will look. Some men will stare. But, you know what. I'm not gonna allow men to dull down my look. Because, he can't control himself.
And, women don't we look/stare at men. DAMN, he's hot! Look at his azz!
I guess, but it sounds insincere if you ask me, as if the OP is trying to brag about how easily she can get a guy while playing it off as if she's annoyed by it. Maybe I'm dead wrong in her intentions.
I'm not taking it personally, either. I'm a guy.
Nah, I think you might be projecting a bit, as a man. I don't know for sure, but its possible and probable.
A man is a man is a man! The weight room in the gym (OMGosh)! Normally, it's like two women...including me. Nothing, but eyes the entire time. I tune it out. Some men will look. Some men will stare. But, you know what. I'm not gonna allow men to dull down my look. Because, he can't control himself.
And, women don't we look/stare at men. DAMN, he's hot! Look at his azz!
Lesson learned: everybody looks. So do you - you only view it as drama when you are being looked at, not when you are doing the looking. That's because of your need to feed your ego. That's not to say you are a bad person, most of us do it or have done it.
I think a lot depends on how it is done. I have nothing at all against appreciative looks and even comments - and I always take being hit on as a compliment. It takes guts for someone to approach a stranger so I always say thanks and how flattered I am, but that I am very married. : )
Sometimes though, guys can really LEER and that is very off putting. In fact it can be very intimidating. An appreciative comment is one thing, a crude comment is quite different. Fortunately the crude comments are few and far between and they are best off ignored.
I really don't see anything wrong with a guy telling a woman he thinks she looks beautiful/ hot or even sexy (although that's borderline from a stranger) - it's actually a welcome confidence boost. Leering is a whole different ballgame.
OP if men are leering at you on a regular basis there has to be some kind of vibe you're giving off. I don't think inappropriate comments from men are the norm - most guys are nice and just admiring something they think is pretty - no harm, no foul IMHO.
i stopped dating this guy coz he made a move on me in my own apartment. i honestly felt creeped out since i dont know him that well, it was only our 2nd date. plus he is not my type, and am not attracted to him in ANY level. i only went out with him coz well, he ask me out.
So you're not attracted to a guy but you had him in your house after going out with him a second time at that, and ur really confused as to why he made a move on you? Most women that are not attracted to someone don't take the liberty of bringing someone to their home.
Here's a wake up call-MEN LIKE TO GET LAID!
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