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I been dating with this beautiful girl for almost six years. we been on and off but when we seem happy whenever we together, and we have been living together for about 4 years until last year I went to study medicine far away, and we only see each other every 4 month during my break. i love her unconditionally and treated her the best that I can. she care for me lots too. I plan to marry her when i finish school and have a family with her, but this time I'm home she break up with me because she said she isn't good enough for me. she told me that while we dating and while I'm away, she had crushed on couple guys and even kissed them, so she felt guilty and she said if she love me why would she felt for other guys. she said she it sure will hurt her and she will jealous if she see me dating some other girl, and she know that she will never find a guy like me of how i treated her. I'm confused because can girl love someone and still fall for the other or have crush on some other guys? My though is that because I'm away and she lack of the feeling of careness so when guys give her that feeling she will fall for them. I don't know what to do, and I know this will affect my focus for school. have this ever happen to you ladies?
Please tell me what i should Do.
thanks
ps, btw, I'm her first love, and first of everything
^^she still want to be with me and I still want to be with her that why its so hard. I mean when we love someone can we still fall for the other or have crush on other? because i think we are human so i guess its possible, idk..
^^she still want to be with me and I still want to be with her that why its so hard. I mean when we love someone can we still fall for the other or have crush on other? because i think we are human so i guess its possible, idk..
But the thing is you 2 are not together now. You 2 broke up, she cheated on you. She has admitted to having feelings for other guys. The truth is she has already answered you question through her actions. I am certain she loves and cares for you considering how long you were together but in my opinion as a young women i would never cheat on a guy i knew i wanted to be with (and loved) No matter how far away he was. Loyalty is #1 and if she breaks that she ain't worth your heart. Cheating is pretty much the worst thing a women could do to you, to show you that she doesn't want to be in a relationship with you...
You sound like a smart person, Concentrate on school and forget about girls right now. You don't need girls like that in your life.
Yes, my boyfriend broke up with my after nearly six years together. We dated in high school and college but just grew apart. That happens sometimes. We started on the same path but ended up in two different places. I was hurt, but not as much as you are hurt, because I felt it coming.
I'm sorry this happened to you, but sometimes it's for the best. You want to marry someone who is on your path and wants to be by your side forever.
I am so sorry you are going through this, but just reflect on this and learn. Personally, if I really wanted to be with someone and cheated, I would confess and beg for forgiveness and then put my all into fixing the relationship. The fact that she wants to end it because she cheated gives me the impression that she is not willing to work on the relationship right now and just needs time for herself. Maybe she just needs a break. Concentrate on school for now and see what happens.
I agree as well with one day at a time. It can go either way and pray on it.
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