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Old 04-27-2010, 12:05 PM
 
Location: Nova, D.C.,
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The Internet is destroying the world!!
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Old 04-27-2010, 12:08 PM
 
Location: Nassau, Long Island, NY
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I have instructed two friends that, should we die unexpectedly, they are to come in and pull the hard drives on our computers. ALL of the computers (5) and all hard drives in them, and not to forget the externals. Both friends are capable of doing that and I trust them.
Interesting that such an emergency tactic needs to be in place. Is there evidence of criminal behavior on all five computers and their externals or are you just ashamed of yourselves in general? Perhaps it's better to behave in a manner that you don't need to be ashamed of. I pray it's not child pornography.
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Old 04-27-2010, 12:09 PM
 
Location: Back in the gym...Yo Adrian!
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And that right there would be a sign that he's a lousy lay, because a good lover has too much creativity and imagination to get into a routine in the first place.

Oh, and real men do not boil the entirety of a woman's being down to her genitalia, so when that genitalia becomes familiar to them they "get tired" of "IT" and go looking for another IT to put their own genitalia into. Newsflash: There's a person attached to that "pu$$y."
Newsflash -- he's tired of the person attached to that pu$$y as well.

It's not all on the man to be creative and keeping things fresh. Each relationship has a different dynamic.

If you're going to employ gender bashing, then using your logic for each of these guys who you think is a lousy lay or not a real man, there is a woman who is a lousy lay and not woman enough to keep her man happy.
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Old 04-27-2010, 12:09 PM
 
Location: Nassau, Long Island, NY
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The Internet is destroying the world!!
It depends what you use it for. Follow your conscience. If you're afraid someone will find out what's on your computer, you are doing something wrong ... a little wrong up to very evil.
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Old 04-27-2010, 12:13 PM
 
Location: Nassau, Long Island, NY
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And that right there would be a sign that he's a lousy lay, because a good lover has too much creativity and imagination to get into a routine in the first place.

Oh, and real men do not boil the entirety of a woman's being down to her genitalia, so when that genitalia becomes familiar to them they "get tired" of "IT" and go looking for another IT to put their own genitalia into. Newsflash: There's a person attached to that "pu$$y."
Certain men never get to experience that and have no idea what it's like, so of course to them it's all just an "IT" and their advice will be colored by their lmitations and/or lack of experience.

They have those "soft rubber lifelike" reproductions of a porn star's genitalia or those "soft rubber lifelike" dolls because they are too socially retarded to have interactions with real women. Scary that there are so many of them out there that are computer literate, yet have no experience interacting with the opposite sex.
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Old 04-27-2010, 12:16 PM
 
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Newsflash -- he's tired of the person attached to that pu$$y as well.

It's not all on the man to be creative and keeping things fresh. Each relationship has a different dynamic.

If you're going to employ gender bashing, then using your logic for each of these guys who you think is a lousy lay or not a real man, there is a woman who is a lousy lay and not woman enough to keep her man happy.
I absolutely do apply that across the board. First rule of adulthood for men and women: Take control of and responsibility for your sex life.

But this thread is about a man who can't keep it in his pants for a few weeks or months while separated from his girlfriend, whom he claims to want to marry, and other men are chiming in making assumptions that favor the man.

That you and other men are looking for excuses for this guy does not paint men in a good light at all, no bashing required.
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Old 04-27-2010, 12:23 PM
 
Location: Back in the gym...Yo Adrian!
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None required but you did it anyway. You can't absolve yourself from the misandrist overtones of your posts. Not from this thread or any other.
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Old 04-27-2010, 12:31 PM
 
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None required but you did it anyway. You can't absolve yourself from the misandrist overtones of your posts. Not from this thread or any other.
If you think that, then you're not paying attention, just like you haven't paid attention to this thread. If you had, you'd realize that the "tired of the same ol' pu$$y" argument is irrelevant here, because they are living in different states.

Thank you, drive through.

NEXT!
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Old 04-27-2010, 12:34 PM
 
Location: Back in the gym...Yo Adrian!
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If you think that, then you're not paying attention. Thank you, drive through.

NEXT!
My eyes are wide open and I'm quite perceptive.
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Old 04-27-2010, 01:08 PM
 
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I agree with Avienne's posts.

If you have been dating 3 years and there is talk of marriage then it isn't just a hot and bothered quickie romance all about the sex.

People who are in actual love with each other (not just each others bodies) do not stray or explore to the point of setting up profiles on websites to meet random strangers.

What if your husband is in the military and comes home paralyzed--oh crap well i'd better leave him as his d#ck doesn't work--seriously? It's much the same as any lull in a relationship (not that the OP even mentioned one except being apart for a few weeks at a time which isn't much really)--you are with the person because you love them--not because they are some 'thing' to poke--gross seriously gross.
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