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Originally Posted by NY Annie
OP, sorry to hear that - it's sad that you have no partner in life - but more sad that you brought a child into that environment.
It's really a shame that you two can't find a meeting of the minds in the middle somewhere - a little play money isn't a bad thing (directed at you); on the otherhand, too much play and not enough frugality isn't good either (at her). Somewhere is a happy medium. Perhaps she's rebelling against your practicality and you are digging in your heels at her spending. Have you tried counselling?
I have suggested it, she says I will just manipulate the councellor. I believe she is scared she will be criticized, and she doesnt take criticism lightly, anger issues. Yes what strange times we live in. BTW I am not a stick in the mud.
If she's taking her paycheck and running off to the casino when she has a child at home she doesn't see for at least 40 hours of the week, I think she might have a problem.
Maybe you should check into GA (Gamblers Anonymous) and leave some info around for her. Does she gamble her entire paycheck? Does she stay all night?
We've decided that whoever is earning more, can contribute a higher proportion financially toward the house, and whoever spends most time there does a higher proportion of housework..
those proportions will need some defining once both our careers settle down.
all the money goes into the same pot it matters not who makes how much - its all "ours" not "mine" and "yours".
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