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This might seem like an odd question, but, for about a year now I've been completely unattracted to every man that I meet/see. Yes, he can be very good looking, but I just won't have the desire to hang out/have sex with/date him. It's really weird, but I used to have a very high sex drive, and thinking about it all the time. But not anymore. I am kind of turned off by it now, and the thought of doing it with someone who I am not completely in love with no longer appeals to me. Now I'm not saying.."Ohhh I wish I were a ****!" But I feel like this is not normal. I haven't met anyone at all that has really done anything for me. I guess the problem is that I want to meet someone who will inspire some kind of feeling! And I've tried so many things to meet guys...dating sites, in class, at work, in bars, yes even VOLUNTEERING!! But nothing. I don't know what's wrong with me!!! I thought, hmmm, maybe I am not really straight? But.. I don't get aroused at the thought of being with a women at all.
This might seem like an odd question, but, for about a year now I've been completely unattracted to every man that I meet/see. Yes, he can be very good looking, but I just won't have the desire to hang out/have sex with/date him. It's really weird, but I used to have a very high sex drive, and thinking about it all the time. But not anymore. I am kind of turned off by it now, and the thought of doing it with someone who I am not completely in love with no longer appeals to me. Now I'm not saying.."Ohhh I wish I were a ****!" But I feel like this is not normal. I haven't met anyone at all that has really done anything for me. I guess the problem is that I want to meet someone who will inspire some kind of feeling! And I've tried so many things to meet guys...dating sites, in class, at work, in bars, yes even VOLUNTEERING!! But nothing. I don't know what's wrong with me!!! I thought, hmmm, maybe I am not really straight? But.. I don't get aroused at the thought of being with a women at all.
To me, the thought of sex with a stranger is disgusting, and the thought of it is only getting more disgusting. I don't think I'd worry about it.
I'm not sexual so much as affectionate. I don't NEED to be having SEX with anyone...but cuddling, holding hands and stuff always sounds nice. Maybe you are just the same way? It's ok, you can do like me and tell HollyWeird to buzz off, you are your own man.
This might seem like an odd question, but, for about a year now I've been completely unattracted to every man that I meet/see. Yes, he can be very good looking, but I just won't have the desire to hang out/have sex with/date him. It's really weird, but I used to have a very high sex drive, and thinking about it all the time. But not anymore. I am kind of turned off by it now, and the thought of doing it with someone who I am not completely in love with no longer appeals to me. Now I'm not saying.."Ohhh I wish I were a ****!" But I feel like this is not normal. I haven't met anyone at all that has really done anything for me. I guess the problem is that I want to meet someone who will inspire some kind of feeling! And I've tried so many things to meet guys...dating sites, in class, at work, in bars, yes even VOLUNTEERING!! But nothing. I don't know what's wrong with me!!! I thought, hmmm, maybe I am not really straight? But.. I don't get aroused at the thought of being with a women at all.
My guess is that your hormonal levels are changing. You are young and you're still developing.
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Originally Posted by nikkir386 This might seem like an odd question, but, for about a year now I've been completely unattracted to every man that I meet/see. Yes, he can be very good looking, but I just won't have the desire to hang out/have sex with/date him. It's really weird, but I used to have a very high sex drive, and thinking about it all the time. But not anymore. I am kind of turned off by it now, and the thought of doing it with someone who I am not completely in love with no longer appeals to me. Now I'm not saying.."Ohhh I wish I were a ****!" But I feel like this is not normal. I haven't met anyone at all that has really done anything for me. I guess the problem is that I want to meet someone who will inspire some kind of feeling! And I've tried so many things to meet guys...dating sites, in class, at work, in bars, yes even VOLUNTEERING!! But nothing. I don't know what's wrong with me!!! I thought, hmmm, maybe I am not really straight? But.. I don't get aroused at the thought of being with a women at all.
Me too. I thought it was called growing up??
hmm....must be something going around 'cause I've felt the same way for a while....
UM I live in Chandler, AZ and am surrounded by those type of women. Most look like they have plastic breasts, I won't say anymore about that...but no.
I don't see the issue without. it's not like I go out and tell some women that she is so hot and I'm going to have the sexes with her that night. Then when I get her home I say, "Ha ha no sexes, time for cuddles."
That doesn't happen, I don't lie about what I am. And what I do doesn't hurt anyone...so C'est le vie.
ANd there is a whole lot of make up, fake tan and fake hair color in that picture, not my thing. On Friday I saw my friend Jen (yes friend she's the little sister of my HS gf) and she used to wear a TON of makeup like that. When I first walked in I thought she was wearing NO makeup. But she switched to natural colors....like a light brown on her eyes and just a lip gloss I guess. I told her she looked MUCH better and should actually be able to find a BF that has a job now.
http://community.sportsbubbler.com/blogs/gridiron_girl/Panama%20City%20Beach%202009%20010.jpg (broken link)
ugh wait, I have a problem.. there are 8 and only seven days. Oh wait, I'll just double up on Saturday, problem solved!. Hmm. or take on 3 at once and have a day off to recoup?
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