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Old 03-04-2012, 10:05 AM
 
Location: Home of the best seafood
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Separated from my husband, after he left me homeless, broke and hungry. Friends distanced themselves. Still jobless, no money. Unemployment ended 8 months ago. I been temping off and on, but no luck with finding work.

Currently staying with my aunts but have to sleep on the floor and pay rent. I'm not use to this. Everyone is your friend when your life is going good, but when your life comes crashing down they're all gone.

I just feel so alone and hopeless. I can't help but to complain. I'm losing. I use to have it all.

Just needed to vent!
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Old 03-04-2012, 10:07 AM
 
Location: Hell, NY
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Separated from my husband, after he left me homelss, broke and hungry. Friends distanced themselves. Still jobless, no money. Unemployment ended 8 months ago. I been temping off and on, but no luck with finding work.

Currently staying with my aunts but have to sleep on the floor and pay rent. I'm not use to this. Everyone is your friend when your life is going good, but when your life comes crashing down they're all gone.

I just feel so alone and hopeless. I can't help but to complain. I'm losing. I use to have it all.

Just needed to vent!

Just letting you know someone's listening..That's all we need some time..Reps to cheer you up and I hope your life gets better..My mother once told me that we all suffer at some point in our life..Noones life is suffer free.
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Old 03-04-2012, 10:14 AM
 
Location: West Michigan
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Same here for support. Remember that you are not the only one to go through life's rough spots. Many go through this all the time so you are not alone. But for every day that it rains or storms, the clear sunshiny day is right around the corner. Don't give up.

And as for your so-called friends, they were never your real friends to begin with. Once you get back on your feet and are very successful, you can tell those folks where they can go (and it can be where the sun don't shine!!)
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Old 03-04-2012, 10:14 AM
 
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Lifesprecious, you did the right thing. This is just the initial hard stuff you have to work through. Trust me, it does get better eventually. Keep looking for a job, treat yourself to a little something nice every week if you can and keep positive.
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Old 03-04-2012, 10:18 AM
 
Location: Home of the best seafood
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Thanks y'all. I'm trying, its hard tho. Ill get through this
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Old 03-04-2012, 10:21 AM
 
Location: USA
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I just want to say to you to be encouraged, right now you are going through a very hard time and even now it seems like are being given more than any one person should have to deal with. It takes strength to even post how hard things are for you, but please know that my myself and the rest of your city data family are wishing you all the love and support that your heart can hold. Hoping that your next day will bring you healing and a job with a home of your own with a fridge filled with all of your favorite foods. Please know you are not alone, and that someone does care.
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Old 03-04-2012, 10:21 AM
 
Location: England
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Hello.

I wish i had something deep, meaningful and inspiring for you but i don't. All i can offer you is my support. You may feel low but remember that good people care, just read the posts to see that.

Take care of yourself.
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Old 03-04-2012, 10:29 AM
 
Location: Hell, NY
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Thanks y'all. I'm trying, its hard tho. Ill get through this

That's the spirit. And remember, we've all been on our knees before. I've sure had my share of bad times. Things do get better.

Hopefully, there's only one place left for you to go when your that low, that's up...
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Old 03-04-2012, 10:39 AM
 
Location: Home of the best seafood
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That's the spirit. And remember, we've all been on our knees before. I've sure had my share of bad times. Things do get better.

Hopefully, there's only one place left for you to go when your that low, that's up...
Thanks Supermanpansy.
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Old 03-04-2012, 10:48 AM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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You'll be just fine, life is a bi*ch but you'll get through it. I'm sorry to hear what happened but just remember there will always be good times on their way.
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