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Raena77 · 11-09-2009, 08:19 PM

OK There is this guy in my college class who flirts sooo openly with this gal in my art class.

She clearly doesn't want him, but is nice to him. He runs into things..stumbles. Starts up conversation with her, and she cuts him off.

I feel so bad for this youngen. I just want to grab him and say you need to stop trying so hard!!!

But at last young love ...

what would you do?

NotARedneck · 11-09-2009, 08:24 PM

Document it on your cell cam and threaten to put it on the net. Send a complaint to NOW.

Everyone knows that women are supposed to be attracted to men and not the other way around.

MIKEETC · 11-09-2009, 10:35 PM

I don't think there's anything that can be done.

dvcgal · 11-09-2009, 10:38 PM

I would tell him to play it cool and to back off. Not sure whether or not you are friends with him, but that is what I would say either way.

mrstewart · 11-09-2009, 10:40 PM

Poor guy...he is probably just blinded by the crush he has on her and has NO CLUE! These situations always make my heart ache for the oblivious one...

Brown Leather Jacket · 11-09-2009, 10:43 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Raena77

OK There is this guy in my college class who flirts sooo openly with this gal in my art class.

She clearly doesn't want him, but is nice to him. He runs into things..stumbles. Starts up conversation with her, and she cuts him off.

I feel so bad for this youngen. I just want to grab him and say you need to stop trying so hard!!!

But at last young love ...

what would you do?

Try to hook him with another girl.

I've heard, and can personally attest, that the best way to get over a girl is to get over another girl, if you know what I mean.

funymann · 11-10-2009, 07:25 AM

Funy this is he will probably get her.

Women are funy. I know many a friends that have married the gals they chased after for a long time. It's like women break down or something.

It's a definate NO. Then a nicer NO. Then a maybe and then they are married with 3 kids. I wouldn't do anything.

No one is ever out of your league. Most millionaires are that way cause they keep trying.

virgode · 11-10-2009, 07:32 AM

This could be true funymann, she could be flattered and enjoying the attention, even though shes giving the impression of no interest.

SD4020 · 11-10-2009, 07:52 AM

Good grief Raena quit turning down his advances already.

seeniorita · 11-10-2009, 08:36 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Raena77

OK There is this guy in my college class who flirts sooo openly with this gal in my art class.

She clearly doesn't want him, but is nice to him. He runs into things..stumbles. Starts up conversation with her, and she cuts him off.

I feel so bad for this youngen. I just want to grab him and say you need to stop trying so hard!!!

But at last young love ...

what would you do?

Tell him to quit acting like Forest Gump!

Apparently she is not impressed with his goofy attempts to get her attention. IMO, he is behaving extremely adolescent, especially for someone in college.