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Originally Posted by 1bright_future
But for some reason I think there's still a part of my mind that is playing it safe and not having me ask out the women, etc.. maybe out of fear of rejection or fear of change.
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Even though this convo happens 1000s of times on this forum I guess some people just cant be bothered to go back and read previous threads
Long story short you are afraid of women, not rejection. Fear of rejection would include guys and I don't think you would think twice if a guy doesn't want to go have a beer with you.
You are afraid of women, and thats like being afraid of a puppy. Easiest way to fix this problem is to change your focus when you are out trying to meet a girl. Instead of focusing on the possible rejection/outcome focus on the actual act of asking the girl out.
Make a goal of asking 10 girls out in the next month. I guarantee if nothing else a month from now you will be less afraid of women and better at talking to them. And the following month make it 15. Keep adding to your goal and you will either end up asking out 500 girls a month or find a girlfriend.