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I don't know how to get over it. We "broke up" for a few weeks and talked every day, but she was out sleeping around with several people. She was honest about that but lied about someone moving in with her for a week or so, and I've tried to get over it but all these months later I feel like each passing day makes me angrier. I don't know what to do about it because it will destroy the relationship soon enough.
She cheated on you. It's over. If you marry her you'll seriously regret it. She will cheat on you again. And even if she doesn't (unlikely), you'll always resent her, and rightly so. She broke your trust. It can't be fixed. Stop looking for reasons to keep her around. It won't work. She's a bad apple, get rid of her. Once they cheat, that's it, it's done. Better still don't ever get married. Don't ever let a woman emotionally blackmail you by demanding that you prove that you trust her by marrying her. You don't owe her that proof.
Boils down to how you feel. Your decision and actions shouldn't be about her, shouldn't be about what the internet thinks, it should be about you. Do what feels right to you.
You were both "broken up" so techically she didnt cheat. Don't you know that's usually their get out of jail free card to go sleep around and get it out of their system?
I know someone that breaks up with her bf every other year, screws around then gets back together without him knowing she was sleeping around and having other men around their kids.
P.S, Watch out for Vegas trips and bachelorette parties as well. Because I've seen where they will start a fight before they leave so they can have fun and then get back together.
You were both "broken up" so techically she didnt cheat. Don't you know that's usually their get out of jail free card to go sleep around and get it out of their system?
I know someone that breaks up with her bf every other year, screws around then gets back together without him knowing she was sleeping around and having other men around their kids.
This is also something to learn for next time. If anyone asks for a 'break' they are basically asking can they cheat and/or try dating someone else instead and still have the option of coming back to you. If you aren't okay with this (and most normal people are not), you'll save yourself a lot of pain by telling them that and that they need to make a decision on whether or not they want to continue a relationship with you, and you'll respect their decision one way or the other, but that a temporary 'break' won't fly. OP made a mistake here, and hopefully will learn for the future from it.
We "broke up" for a few weeks and talked every day, but she was out sleeping around with several people.
A few weeks and she slept with several people. It looks like she has a lot of dudes on the bench waiting for their turn. I would not pursue this relationship any further. If you marry her and get on her bad side then she might call a reserve to sex her.
To add to behindthescreen; watch out for girls night out too. I had a girlfriend that use to do that every month. When i confronted her about it she would flip it on me by saying, "Don't you trust me! We are just going to have fun, drink a little and dance with each other. We are not looking for me." The relationship didn't last long and she had a new guy in no time. The appropriate response to the above is " I don't trust the environment since it's a hook-up/1 night stand environment. Also, alcohol can alter the behavior of the most innocent individual."
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