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Um, if he wanted me he wouldn't be looking at porn! It is an, obvious, statement that your partner isn't enough for you. Personally, I would not stay in a relationship where my man needed to look at other women. If he needs other women, he needs to go find them and leave me to find a man who wants me. The problem with porn is it invades the most intimate part of marriage. THE part of marriage that you don't share with others. The personal part. It wouldn't have to be excessive. If it were there at all, I'd be gone.
I remember the first time my father caught my brother with porn. He sat him down and talked to him about respecting women and valuing the women in his life. My husband looking at porn would show he does not respect women and does not value me. He might as well cheat. You don't window shop if you don't intend to buy.
The only people whose opinions matter, about any topic, are those in the actual relationship. Your opinions are yours and as long as your husband is in agreement, that's what counts. However my opinions, although quite different from yours, are equally valid because they are in sync with my husband's.
You think my husband & I settled because we've watched porn. I'll tell you that you're wrong and that we won't lose any sleep over it.
So let's just say we'll agree to disagree on this.
As a man, I detest porn. My thing is, why watch it when you can possibly get the real thing. If I get married, my woman will never have an issue with me watching porn because for us, our sex life will be far better than any activity depicted in porn videos.
Here we go when we first got married we were 17 and 18 years one day i come across a porn video inside a game case under the game when i confronted him to know why he needed it he denied it being his and for our marriage i let it go.... few years down the road it turns to girls on his phone just in bikinis i let it go to me it wasnt as bad as the porn but i still let him know that this really hurts me feeling exspecially when he says (OH IT WAS A SLIP OF MY FINGER I DIDNT MEAN TO DOWNLOAD IT) YEAH RIGHT i wasnt born yesturday. He promises not to look at what makes me uncomfortable and like i dummy i believe him with everything i have....Our marraige seemed ok but then here recently i found a movie not porn ok just a random movie that he obviuosly picked for the pic of two half dressed nurses becuase my husband is to lazy to read... after talking to him he finally comes clean now keep in mind we are going back 7 years of our marraige and he tell me the porn the pic on his phone he did do and then when i thoughwe were ok he had nudie magazines tucked away at work.. when i asked him why he said it a guy thing no one woman is ever enough visually for any man. to hear this come out of his mouth hurt me more than anything. I understand that this will never end i wont end my marraige over something so stupid like a bunch of whores on tv or in pics so how do i get over iti f it makes me feel ugly and worthless. oh in case your wondering its not beacuase i have al lack of a sex drive i want sex more than him and i will try what ever he wants so i dont understand?what do you think..
Didn't read any of the other responses yet. But I'd say if this is your biggest problem with him, thank your creator... I've had more relationships than I care to count. I can't remember even one of them being jealous over some annymous female that I'll never meet. Some of them liked to watch it with me. Spiced things up. Why not try that. You just might like it... You and hubby might just end up making your own porn. Now that's fun.
As a man, I detest porn. My thing is, why watch it when you can possibly get the real thing. If I get married, my woman will never have an issue with me watching porn because for us, our sex life will be far better than any activity depicted in porn videos.
My theory is that if a man feels the need to hide something as innocent as porn then what else is he hiding? He obviously has the capacity to keep secrets...but then again this is only one side of the story. If the first time you found the porn you flipped your lid then he most likely wanted to avoid that reaction again. I like porn and my boyfriend isn't that into it, so I'd be turned on if I found out he watched it...Sorry OP your husband sounds strange. You want sex more than him and yet he's hiding porn? It makes no sense to me.
As a man, I detest porn. My thing is, why watch it when you can possibly get the real thing. If I get married, my woman will never have an issue with me watching porn because for us, our sex life will be far better than any activity depicted in porn videos.
You tell me that when your SO gains 70lbs, and has a headache every night.
(on a side note, its now been scientifically proven, that sex can end a headache, but don't tell girls that, they'll just come up with another excuse)
screw that he can have some alone time when he takes care of me first weve been married 7 years i cant deal with having sex only once everyother week for the rest of my life while he plays with himself everyday he has needs but so do i and this is not something a vibrator can take care of i need some skin to skin ........Oh and yes i play modern wafare too i actually enjoy but id turn it off for some sexin
Dang, the husband watches porn and the wife talks it...LOL
Porn can skew people's view of what sex is like, it usually just depicts women "servicing" men.
Men sometimes forget that she's gotta get her "cookies" too.
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?what do you think..
