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this is the secound time ive caught him, i dont know what to do, i want to do the right thing, should i work with him, im hurt and upset, we are married with one kid and one on theway. should i leave him but what would i do?
this is the secound time ive caught him, i dont know what to do, i want to do the right thing, should i work with him, im hurt and upset, we are married with one kid and one on theway. should i leave him but what would i do?
Porn can be tough. It tends to warp one's views of what is normal. I'd talk to him about it. Porn addiction is as real and as bad as any other kind of addiction. If talking to him doesn't work, try counseling.
this is the secound time ive caught him, i dont know what to do, i want to do the right thing, should i work with him, im hurt and upset, we are married with one kid and one on theway. should i leave him but what would i do?
If you're thinking of leaving him over porn, you really need to think twice. While porn can be destructive, having a broken home over it needs to be thought through.
Have you talked to him about how uncomfortable it makes you?
I think a lot of happily married men view porn on occasion....
I don't see the big deal unless it's an addiction or he starts wanting you to look like the women in the videos.
The fact that you're pregnant may be an issue....just sayin'...
If he needs it to fuel sex with you (he cannot have sex with you without it), if he is spending all kinds of money subscribing to it, if it is something that he absolutely has to have as opposed to viewing it once in a while, I'd say there's a problem.
If you're thinking of leaving him over porn, you really need to think twice. While porn can be destructive, having a broken home over it needs to be thought through.
I'm a little confused here on the porn being "destructive". Are we talking about a guy who is addicted to porn and thus is neglecting his marriage or a guy who only looks at porn from time to time?
I'm a little confused here on the porn being "destructive". Are we talking about a guy who is addicted to porn and thus is neglecting his marriage or a guy who only looks at porn from time to time?
That why I said "can" be destructive. If he's sitting around all day cranking it, he's probably isn't paying too much attention to his wife.
That why I said "can" be destructive. If he's sitting around all day cranking it, he's probably isn't paying too much attention to his wife.
Ok.
Well I think we need more info from the OP on why this is causing a problem? I honestly don't think watching porn every now and then is grounds for a divorce. I think actually engaging in sexual acts outside the marriage is.
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