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Every man looks at porn, and many ladies enjoy it also. It can be his full time pastime, which is bad, or it can be viewed over a glass of wine, with his wife, so both can enjoy...
Don't be hurt, doesn't mean he doesn't love you. Talk to him about it, join him in watching. Be open minded and investigate it.
Divorced prude, or happily married, open minded wife...? You decide...
this is the secound time ive caught him, i dont know what to do, i want to do the right thing, should i work with him, im hurt and upset, we are married with one kid and one on theway. should i leave him but what would i do?
Oh good grief, big freakin' deal.
If it's not something illegal like kiddie porn, IT'S NORMAL. Men look at porn. They just do. They're very visually driven. Many women can't wrap their brains around the fact that just because your man looks at porn, it's not because he's dissatisfied with you.
So pull up your big-girl panties, and when you catch him spanking it and looking at porn next time, don't freak out. Take your clothes off and offer him a hand. You might be surprised at how this will improve your relationship with him.
Every man looks at porn, and many ladies enjoy it also. It can be his full time pastime, which is bad, or it can be viewed over a glass of wine, with his wife, so both can enjoy...
I agree!
My fiance and I both love porn and have watched some together. It's kept our love life more interesting. I also have some girlfriends who watch porn with their men and have a good time with it.
I'd rather my man watch some porn and jump me, then go outside the home looking elsewhere for it.
If it's not something illegal like kiddie porn, IT'S NORMAL. Men look at porn. They just do. They're very visually driven. Many women can't wrap their brains around the fact that just because your man looks at porn, it's not because he's dissatisfied with you.
So pull up your big-girl panties, and when you catch him spanking it and looking at porn next time, don't freak out. Take your clothes off and offer him a hand. You might be surprised at how this will improve your relationship with him.
Kind of what I was thinking.He could be doing much worse.
If he looks at porn occasionally, I wouldn't worry, it's certainly not grounds for divorce. But if it takes up his entire day and he's spending large amounts of money on porn sites, that's a problem.
LOL--well said. I quite enjoy watching it with my hubby
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Originally Posted by ZugZub
Oh good grief, big freakin' deal.
If it's not something illegal like kiddie porn, IT'S NORMAL. Men look at porn. They just do. They're very visually driven. Many women can't wrap their brains around the fact that just because your man looks at porn, it's not because he's dissatisfied with you.
So pull up your big-girl panties, and when you catch him spanking it and looking at porn next time, don't freak out. Take your clothes off and offer him a hand. You might be surprised at how this will improve your relationship with him.
well, the thing is also he lied to me to face and told me he wasnt looking at it all night while i was sleeping, when i have the proof that he was and the fact he lied to my face makes it worse
Every man looks at porn, and many ladies enjoy it also. It can be his full time pastime, which is bad, or it can be viewed over a glass of wine, with his wife, so both can enjoy...
Don't be hurt, doesn't mean he doesn't love you. Talk to him about it, join him in watching. Be open minded and investigate it.
Divorced prude, or happily married, open minded wife...? You decide...
Sorry but if your telling yourself that all men do it so you might as well too, its not true that all men look at porn. Some men have more respect then that.
I do think alot of men are selfish and endulgent enough to do this kind of thing inside a relationship when they KNOW it would upset their wife but not all men are like that.
well, the thing is also he lied to me to face and told me he wasnt looking at it all night while i was sleeping, when i have the proof that he was and the fact he lied to my face makes it worse
Can't blame him if you're freaking out on him for it.
He's doing something that is perfectly normal for men, and you're being a drama queen about it. Suck it up, buttercup. There's nothing wrong with it. I've walked in on my man many times when he's getting "busy" and it doesn't bother me in the least. If he's in the mood for me to join in, I do so happily. If not, then I either watch or I give him some alone time. It's no big deal.
Sorry but if your telling yourself that all men do it so you might as well too, its not true that all men look at porn. Some men have more respect then that.
I do think alot of men are selfish and endulgent enough to do this kind of thing inside a relationship when they KNOW it would upset their wife but not all men are like that.
Gotta disagree here. If a man doesn't look at porn he's either a) an ultra religious prude; or b) afraid of his wife/girlfriend. Chances are if a woman thinks her man isn't looking at porn, he's just too wily to get caught and risk the bitchy fallout.
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