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Old 07-06-2015, 06:27 PM
 
Location: Salt Lake City
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No sex until after marriage is like buying a car without test driving it.

Now, who would do something that stupid?
Me? (45 years happily married and sexually fulfilled).
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Old 07-06-2015, 06:35 PM
 
Location: Seattle, Washington
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By "changed woman", I mean a woman who used to be quite slutty and godless, but then had a real epiphany and decided to stop having sex, and wait until marriage. She takes her transformation quite seriously, and doesn't even curse now. Would you wait until marriage to be with such a woman, or even consider being with such a woman?
Some swear that this kind of drastic change signals death is not far away. I would think it is at the very least a midlife crisis!
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Old 07-06-2015, 06:39 PM
 
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By "changed woman", I mean a woman who used to be quite slutty and godless, but then had a real epiphany and decided to stop having sex, and wait until marriage. She takes her transformation quite seriously, and doesn't even curse now. Would you wait until marriage to be with such a woman, or even consider being with such a woman?
Just don't have kids. please, save the rest of us from having to pay for the nightmare mom and dad.
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Old 07-07-2015, 12:38 AM
 
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That word is used to degrade and demean women for being sexual. If the OP is using it to refer to herself.....she needs to stop demeaning and degrading herself. If the OP is a man and is using it to describe women.... oy vey.
Yep. It just adds to the guilt some love to heap on women for being sexually active before marriage.

While her circumstances were extreme, Elizabeth Smart has my respect for speaking out about the damages of her abstinence education.

Damaging Effects of Shame Based Sex Education From Elizabeth Smart

Then there's Bristol Palin who made $$$$ as a speaker promoting abstinence in between her two out-of-wedlock pregnancies.
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Old 07-07-2015, 02:35 PM
 
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By "changed woman", I mean a woman who used to be quite slutty and godless, but then had a real epiphany and decided to stop having sex, and wait until marriage. She takes her transformation quite seriously, and doesn't even curse now. Would you wait until marriage to be with such a woman, or even consider being with such a woman?
Of course. Having said that, I'm happily married, so obviously I'm not looking for a spouse....but I have told my wife I didn't care what she did before marriage.
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Old 07-07-2015, 03:51 PM
 
Location: California side of the Sierras
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Me? (45 years happily married and sexually fulfilled).
You're very fortunate it turned out that way.
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Old 07-07-2015, 08:27 PM
 
Location: Home is Where You Park It
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By "changed woman", I mean a woman who used to be quite slutty and godless, but then had a real epiphany and decided to stop having sex, and wait until marriage. She takes her transformation quite seriously, and doesn't even curse now. Would you wait until marriage to be with such a woman, or even consider being with such a woman?
In Lubbock, we grew up with two main things: God loves you and he's gonna send you to hell, and that sex is bad and dirty and nasty and awful and you should save it for the one you love.
--Butch Hancock
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Old 07-07-2015, 11:42 PM
 
Location: Northeastern US
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You're very fortunate it turned out that way.
Yeah, some people get all the luck.
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Old 07-08-2015, 12:00 AM
 
Location: SC
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It is an error to conflate "slutty" and "godless". There are plenty of sexually unpromiscuous women who are not Christians; there are plenty of sexually promiscuous Christian women too.
Exactly.

Just ask the congregation in Alabama who's preacher was caught not too long ago, spreading his seed, and his HIV AIDS, all over multiple women throughout their church.
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Old 07-08-2015, 09:09 AM
 
Location: Camberville
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Absolutely not. Life is too short to be with boring people.
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