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Old 01-29-2013, 10:00 PM
 
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It might help you learn some social skills if you lived with roommates, btw.

I'm not trying to be snarky, but working with a therapist might be beneficial as well. You might have self esteem issues as well.
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Old 01-29-2013, 10:28 PM
 
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Look on Craigslist for a basement rental with a separate entrance. Single Family house owners sometimes rent out the basement as a junior apartment. It probably won't have a full kitchen, but you can put in a dorm fridge and put a microwave on your dresser or something.

A basement rental is usually cheaper than an actual apartment, but isn't a roommate situation because the homeowner doesn't want to share the main floor with the renter (and they usually keep the inside door to the basement locked around the clock).
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Old 01-29-2013, 11:35 PM
 
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Look on Craigslist for a basement rental with a separate entrance. Single Family house owners sometimes rent out the basement as a junior apartment. It probably won't have a full kitchen, but you can put in a dorm fridge and put a microwave on your dresser or something.

A basement rental is usually cheaper than an actual apartment, but isn't a roommate situation because the homeowner doesn't want to share the main floor with the renter (and they usually keep the inside door to the basement locked around the clock).
OP, basement apartments are often not done to code and can be dangerous (as well as miserable) for a variety of reasons. Just be cautious.
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Old 01-30-2013, 02:50 AM
 
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I'd be perfectly fine with a roommate but I don't think a roommate would be fine with me. That's not something I can control.

then increase your income or stay with you parents.
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Old 01-30-2013, 02:56 AM
 
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the only thing one can control, is one's own actions and behaviour. What makes you think you're not good roommate potential?

very true...I'm curious about this as well.
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Old 01-30-2013, 06:24 AM
 
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I've looked for roommates for a few years, and trust me, there are plenty of weird people needing roommates. Some people prefer to hang out in their rooms, but you will have to be able to interact daily.

There are also landlords who rent rooms who don't live at the place. They usually only care about ability to pay.

Also, there are different degrees of weird. So it depends what your issues are.
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Old 01-30-2013, 06:29 AM
 
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How are you presenting yourself? Do you have Asperger's or something like that?

There are social skills groups out there. A good therapist might be able to help.
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Old 01-30-2013, 06:38 AM
 
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As others have said, stay with your parents or get a second job so that you can afford something on your own.
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Old 01-30-2013, 09:55 AM
 
Location: North Idaho
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If you can't afford to rent, then you can not rent. Period. There is no way to secure housing that you can't pay for.

So, live at home with your parents, live in your car, live in a cardboard box, get a better job to increase your income.

Rent is not even the biggest expense. You will need utilities, food, clothing, garbage service, transportation......
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