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Old 08-13-2013, 10:28 AM
 
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...but maybe in a good way?

Here's the situation....I am living with a guy who I may marry in the future. We are both early 50s....hope to retire around 60....his retirement savings are tied to the country in Latin America where he was born and worked for many years....he will be eligible for their version of Social Security/401k, along with whatever earnings he has accrued here in the US.

He owns a home there outright that he currently rents out, as well as beach property, owned outright - that is shared with a brother, who is still there with no plans to move.

It occurs to us that maybe our best retirement strategy is to divide our time between the two countries - being in the US in the warmer months and South America when it's cold here since the seasons are flipped.

It just seems to me this may be complicated by maintaining property in two countries, pensions in two countries and tax nightmares...I don't know - maybe I am making more out of it than I need to.

Thoughts? comments? Anyone here had this type of arrangement?

Thanks, C
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Old 08-13-2013, 10:33 AM
 
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Hopefully one of our very astute Mods, earlyretirement will chime in. I think he has a bunch of experience on that topic. You might try DM-ing him.
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Old 08-13-2013, 11:12 AM
 
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Retirement complicated by a second marriage?
Grocery shopping is complicated by a second marriage.
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...his retirement savings are tied to the country in Latin America...
The household, marriage and even retirement aspect PALE in significance to the general legalities here.
You need to find your own competent lawyer to discuss the various ins/outs.
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Old 08-13-2013, 11:45 AM
 
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You'd likely have immigration laws to contend with, too. It's not that simple to bring a foreign spouse in and out of the U.S.

edit to add: That is, unless he's already dealt with the visa/green card/citizenship issue. Your post wasn't clear.
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Old 08-13-2013, 12:44 PM
 
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He has permanent residency...thank you.
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Old 08-13-2013, 01:04 PM
 
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Research such as with his nations embassy might be in order since that can mean everything. As far as you living part time I'd think medical is a big consideration when in that country. Most likely ownership of his property since paid for remains in his name and rights to possession. As far as taxes consult a CPA. Likely he is familiar to a point has he has income from both apparently so files in both countries.
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Old 08-13-2013, 09:53 PM
 
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Hopefully one of our very astute Mods, earlyretirement will chime in. I think he has a bunch of experience on that topic. You might try DM-ing him.

I’m on vacation out of the country so I haven’t been reading the board the past several days and will be out of the country until next week. But I got your DM so I thought I’d answer and I hope others in a similar situation find this helpful.

Just my 2 cents. You need to be aware of the differences in law between the USA and various countries in South America. I’m not sure where in Latin America but you can probably apply this advice to many countries.

First of all, don’t assume that any property will automatically become yours in the event that you marry and something were to happen to your spouse (assuming you get married). I know you didn’t ask this part of it but I still think it’s worth mentioning it. The inheritance laws are VERY strict in some of these Latin American countries.

In some, you couldn’t write your kid out of a last will and testament if you tried. So it would be wise to see what is applicable to you. For example, you mentioned this was his 2nd marriage assuming you get married. You need to be mindful and think about the possibility that any properties/real estate he bought when he was married before he married to you might go directly to his ex-wife or children.

I mention this because I know someone this happened to. She got married to someone from South America and he died. She assumed she was going to be comfortable as he owned many properties. They never had “the talk” and she assumed everything was going to her.

He bought them many decades prior in a previous life and he had an ex-wife and kids. Well, he died and she didn’t get any of the properties at all. So go into a potential marriage talking about all of these things. The laws in Latin America are DRASTICALLY different.

Also, keep in mind that the legal and judicial system in many of these countries are totally broken and can take YEARS and YEARS to untangle in the event of some problem. So even if ultimately you might lay claim to something, his family members can make it difficult and ugly for you.

Each countries laws are different so it makes sense to speak to an accountant that specializes in ex-pat tax issues. I can’t emphasis this enough because in many countries there are two totally different sets of laws. One for RESIDENTS that live in the country full-time (or at least a minimum # of days per year) and another set of laws for non-residents. So find the best accountant that specializes in NON-RESIDENT as well as RESIDENT tax laws.

Typically in any country only a handful of accountants specialize in non-resident tax issues. So make sure to find one. It’s like NOT going to a family practice doctor when you need brain surgery. Just because that physician might be a doctor doesn’t mean he can help you. Same thing here.

You mentioned that he owns property with his brother. You need to realize that in many of these countries the brother can make it difficult/impossible for you to ever lay claim to this property. Even if they have a good relationship now, I’ve seen plenty of examples of family members cheating other family members.

If you get married, I’d encourage you to speak to an attorney or Escribano to really map out everything in detail if he wants to leave this property to you. A US last will and testament is typically invalid in many countries so find out what is applicable to the country you are speaking about.

Your plan to live down South part of the year is nice and it can make sense because the seasons are reverse down there. I know many friends that own property down in Buenos Aires and they go down there for the winter when it’s winter in USA/Canada it’s summer down there.

It’s not difficult owning property in two different countries if you have family/friends there to help out. It’s not difficult maintaining it either, especially if you have trustworthy and dependable family members. I own properties in 4 different countries in South America. However it CAN be a nightmare if you don't have anyone dependable or reliable to watch over things.

Owning real estate in South America isn't the same thing as owning real estate in the USA or first world countries. Things can and will go wrong. Dealing with utility companies can be an absolute nightmare. So make sure you have someone dependable and make sure you have a legal power of attorney so they can act on your behalf. Obviously you will want it to be limited in nature so they can't sell the property or take out a mortgage or loan against it. But you should specify on it that they can deal with any utility companies (gas, electricity, water, cable, internet, etc) as well as the building administration or any legal matters in case of any dispute where they need to represent you.

What you need to do ASAP is find a GREAT accountant that deals in non-resident tax issues that can explain in detail what obligations your significant other may potentially have. Find out what minimums if any are required to live in the country or visit the country each year.

And see what the differences are for being a resident vs. being a non-resident. The most important part is finding a good accountant to help explain everything and help you structure everything so you don’t have problems in the future. And my advice is even if you have to pay for a second consultation, to go to another non-resident accountant and make sure they gave you the same advice. If not, find out why not. In my vast experience dealing with non-resident accountant experts, most don't know what they are talking about. However, there are typically 2 or 3 experts in most major cities.

It's VERY important that if you do get married, you discuss in GREAT detail with your spouse everything and also discuss with lawyers the best game plan. As well, many times people have no clue how things will end up and no one likes discussing the possibility of death, etc. So you will want to really discuss this as it pertains to South America. "Blood is thicker than water" when it comes to family down there. You should know that going into any potential marriage down there.

I hope this helps.

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Old 08-13-2013, 10:17 PM
 
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Thoughts? comments?
Keep whatever you currently own in the US in your name only once you marry. Things that are titled (such as real estate), trust accounts, and insurance policies can remain just yours, which offer some forms of protection of your assets in case things don't go well in the future with there being foreign law involvement. You'll also need to find out about if in your state of residence there are community property laws to address, and how to protect your current assets once you marry.
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Old 08-14-2013, 07:30 AM
 
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Firstly, thank you all so much, all of this information has been tremendously helpful.

I am beginning to think it would be better if we just remain together as a couple without the additional legal hassles of marriage. I m not so much concerned about my rights to his property in South America - as much as I am about not having to split my pension or assets in the event of a divorce. Considering the currency conversion, my assets are far greater than his...although I have to admit I am not familiar exactly with the property values in his country, although I do know for a fact that the properties he owns are in very desirable areas...one quite literally steps from the ocean and the other, in the best district in the city.
So...it appears that most of my assets are tied up in financial investments and pensions and his, in real estate.
That said....if we are not married, I am not sure how we would manage the residency there, maybe just not extend the 6 month tourist visa since we would be coming back to the U.S. anyway for the summer months. I do need to talk to a tax specialist, but off the top of my head - if I always keep the US as my permanent residency....hopefully I would not also be taxed by his country. Maybe there is a book I can find on Amazon that speaks about these situations in general....Thanks again to all.
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Old 08-14-2013, 07:42 AM
 
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Keep whatever you currently own in the US in your name only once you marry. Things that are titled (such as real estate), trust accounts, and insurance policies can remain just yours, which offer some forms of protection of your assets in case things don't go well in the future with there being foreign law involvement. You'll also need to find out about if in your state of residence there are community property laws to address, and how to protect your current assets once you marry.
I absolutely concur with this post. Protect yourself even if you marry. Keep what is yours. So many cases where women in particular have been cleaned out of their assets without recourse.

Taxes on overseas assets is tricky. If you are not a permanent resident of the foreign country, you probably would not owe taxes to that country. You will always owe taxes in the US unless you renounce your citizenship entirely which, I read, a few are doing.

PROTECT YOUR ASSETS!

Good luck.
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