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I'm talking about older people who refuse to come into the 21st century, refuse to go online, and refuse to own a Smartphone, refuse to text or learn how to, and are happy, happy without it!
I have one living with me. 66YO, never has been online, has never owned a Smartphone (in fact, he doesn't even own a phone anymore, he uses mine 2X a month) would think you're speaking another language if you spoke of streaming, Skype or Facebook. And he's happy, happy living in the 20th century.
Myself, I've got one arm around the 20th century, one arm around the 21st century. Well, make that 3 fingers!
I use my computer for most things like banking, shopping, and email. My phone is for talking to people. I don't text and know few who do. I do message people through Facebook.
Luddite; noun
Ludd·​ite | \ ˈlə-ˌdīt \
Definition of Luddite
: one of a group of early 19th century English workmen destroying laborsaving machinery as a protest
broadly : one who is opposed to especially technological change
The Luddite argued that automation destroys jobs.
That would have described my parents. My dad died in 2014, mom in 2020. Dad used to talk about the evils of the internet, but when he needed some information, he would ask me to look it up. I would also print out tax forms for him as paper forms were no longer readily available without going online.
I had to deal with this when I worked at the library, explaining to patrons that the 1040A and 1040EZ forms no longer existed.
Yes I know few like that. Actually one of them is a younger man in his 30's, but the difference is, he was 'connected' and chose to untether himself from technology. He's not poor and does not live in a city, in fact he lives on acreage... lots of acreage. Good guy, likeable and smart.
Mother uses the open-ear-policy successfully. She complains, takes notes on how to do very basics and then complains as nobody shows her how do use phone/laptop. When she wants to she can skype like a wiz.
My deceased (2-3 years ago) MIL was an anti-tech person. She retired from her teaching job because they were going to require everyone to learn to use a computer. She just took her pension and retired. No computers or smart phones, would never even get a debit card. Her friends told her that debit cards made you become overdrawn too easily, so she wrote checks for everything, no matter how we tried to teach her about them. We convinced her to get a cell phone (Jitterbug of course) in case she was out and got lost, or needed to call us or AAA in an emergency.
My FIL took care of everything for her, paying the bills, filling the gas tank, handling the insurance and investments, etc. When he passed away she was helpless and 80+. We moved her near to us, taught her how to get gas herself, and we took over and put all the bills on auto-pay. I remember when she stayed at our house once and she couldn't figure out the washing machine's digital display. We got a frantic call while we were out and had to walk her through the process step by step because there were "too many buttons to press". On the micro, she would just push the one minute button as many times as necessary to get the time she wanted.
I think at some point people get tired of learning new skills, especially if they can make do with the old technology, or they just can't see, or don't need, the advantages of the new tech. I didn't get a microwave for my own home until sometime in the late 80s. I prefer to cook on the stovetop, so I just didn't buy one. Eventually I bought a home with a built-in micro.
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15+% of USA does not even have internet or cell service.
I've been to many quite remote international locations that are well served by connectivity. (Thanks to USA companies eager to reap more customers, and often funded by USA foreign aid, sometimes used for purposes that will be contrary to USA benefit and safety). Yet, plenty in USA cannot afford or may not have access to non-Mohican technology.
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