07-01-2011, 12:58 PM
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Hi, I've finally come to the conclusion my wife of 30 years has an abusive personality disorder and cannot change. Thus to end the abuse I need to initiate divorce . Does anyone have recommendations for an affordable yet quality attorney to help me fight the inevitable oncoming tornado? There will be no custody issues, just property division and spousal support. I work, she doesn't, but controls the finances. It would really help if I didn't have to pay up front. Did a search but most recommendations were through PM's.
07-01-2011, 01:03 PM
Location: San Antonio, Texas
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On IH 10 between loop 410 and Hildebrand, I saw a billboard stating "divorce made easy, $1000."
07-01-2011, 01:38 PM
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07-01-2011, 02:08 PM
Location: San Antonio
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markymark6
Hi, I've finally come to the conclusion my wife of 30 years has an abusive personality disorder and cannot change. Thus to end the abuse I need to initiate divorce . Does anyone have recommendations for an affordable yet quality attorney to help me fight the inevitable oncoming tornado? There will be no custody issues, just property division and spousal support. I work, she doesn't, but controls the finances. It would really help if I didn't have to pay up front. Did a search but most recommendations were through PM's.
No recommendation, but get the finances out of her hand immediately. New checking account, close the joint; paycheck in new account , etc. cut her off immediately else a run on the account.
07-01-2011, 03:19 PM
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No recommendation, but get the finances out of her hand immediately. New checking account, close the joint; paycheck in new account , etc. cut her off immediately else a run on the account.
thanks for the advice. Working on that, just need to figure the best timing. Don't exactly want to signal my intentions immediately.
07-01-2011, 03:49 PM
Location: Austin
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Don't leave Mrs. Wacko destitute or else she'll really give it to you
. Still, have a secret stash......
07-01-2011, 09:09 PM
Location: Military City, USA.
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So you have diagnosed her, or has she been diagnosed by a licensed mental health doctor/therapist? If she has not officially been diagnosed, have you approached her about getting help? Surely you two have had discussions about her behavior? There are so many "new" mental illnesses discovered now, have you done a search to see what the treatment should be, have you found "abusive personality disorder" to be a legitmate mental health illness? I ask because my spouse suffers from undiagnosed (professionally, but trust me, it is) mental illness and I have been doing research myself and discovered illnessess never discovered or named 30, 20, etc. years ago that are now being recognized/legitimized. I hate to see a 30 year marriage disintegrate if there is help, you do remember "in sickness and in health"? Praying for you.
07-03-2011, 08:31 AM
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Thanks for you suggestions. No, she is not officially diagnosed. She would never admit to having a problem, much less consent to going for an evaluation. It's become aware to me the behavior is getting worse as time goes on. Recently after a particularly bad episode, in desperation I started scouring "men's help" sites and found the following two sites which really helped me put it together.
DadsDivorce.com: Divorce Advice for Men and Fathers | Men and Divorce
A Shrink for Men
It appears she has classic "Narcissistic Personality Disorder" probably brought on by an incident (known by all) which occurred as an early teenager (not abuse, brought on by her). She probably learned the behavior from her Mother who had a different and more traumatic incident in her early life. Basically the condition is a continual attempt to support a false inflated supreme self-image through tearing down others. The main troubling thing is that it appears to have no real treatment. The NPD will do almost anything to support their image.
The Emotionally Abusive Personality: Is She a Borderline or a Narcissist? « A Shrink for Men
So based on past experiences with her denying any responsibility, and what appears a very accurate (and hopeless) description of her condition I have arrived at this painful decision.
07-03-2011, 09:20 AM
Location: West Creek
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ahh good luck buddy, I remember when my Ex GF dropped her mask, As soon as I saw the evil in her eys SVG ran for the hills!
LOL Funny cause she was an angel with everyone but me. and before anyone ask why? I liked the abuse lol JK
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divorce with no kids is very simple, I have a friend who divorced a leech with five kids, none were his. He bought his house when they were dating, and the lady wanted half. Judge made her leave with all the broken furniture her kids broke, and with 1500 and that was it!
07-03-2011, 09:39 AM
Location: san antonio texas
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So you have diagnosed her, or has she been diagnosed by a licensed mental health doctor/therapist? If she has not officially been diagnosed, have you approached her about getting help? Surely you two have had discussions about her behavior? There are so many "new" mental illnesses discovered now, have you done a search to see what the treatment should be, have you found "abusive personality disorder" to be a legitmate mental health illness? I ask because my spouse suffers from undiagnosed (professionally, but trust me, it is) mental illness and I have been doing research myself and discovered illnessess never discovered or named 30, 20, etc. years ago that are now being recognized/legitimized. I hate to see a 30 year marriage disintegrate if there is help, you do remember "in sickness and in health"? Praying for you.
1) i agree with this poster on most things. a 30 year marriage is a terrible thing to let go of. myself, ive been with my wife 11 years this month and would do everything to keep that marriage before i filed paperwork.
2) also agree on the multitude of 'new' illnesses, like autism. dont let her claim its some new, trendy diagnosis that can only be treated with gobs of cash.
3) get finances out of her hands, NOW. yes, it will signal your intentions but if youre paying the bills and you're the one being abused, dont give her anything to hold over your head, especially the family finances.
4) you get what you pay for in regards to lawyers. i know youre going to be strapped for cash with the inevitable move n whatnot, but its better to pay up now than more down the line because the cheapo but good lawyer you hired missed something
i waited almost 7 years before i made the marriage 'official' (on paper with the state) with the missus. its something i will only do once in my life. 'til death do us part' is not taken seriously at all by a good majority of people that get married. in fact, im of the opinion that most dont really take marriage as seriously as it should be taken. id fight tooth and nail to hold onto my 3 decades of marriage before i filed papers.
im not saying you havent, but please exhaust all options before you end it because thats a very big portion of your life that you've spent with your spouce.
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Residents speaking other language at home (%)
Residents speaking other language at home - Born in the United States (%)
Residents speaking other language at home - Native, born elsewhere (%)
Residents speaking other language at home - Foreign born (%)
Class of Workers - Employee of private company (%)
Class of Workers - Self-employed in own incorporated business (%)
Class of Workers - Private not-for-profit wage and salary workers (%)
Class of Workers - Local government workers (%)
Class of Workers - State government workers (%)
Class of Workers - Federal government workers (%)
Class of Workers - Self-employed workers in own not incorporated business and Unpaid family workers (%)
House heating fuel used in houses and condos - Utility gas (%)
House heating fuel used in houses and condos - Bottled, tank, or LP gas (%)
House heating fuel used in houses and condos - Electricity (%)
House heating fuel used in houses and condos - Fuel oil, kerosene, etc. (%)
House heating fuel used in houses and condos - Coal or coke (%)
House heating fuel used in houses and condos - Wood (%)
House heating fuel used in houses and condos - Solar energy (%)
House heating fuel used in houses and condos - Other fuel (%)
House heating fuel used in houses and condos - No fuel used (%)
House heating fuel used in apartments - Utility gas (%)
House heating fuel used in apartments - Bottled, tank, or LP gas (%)
House heating fuel used in apartments - Electricity (%)
House heating fuel used in apartments - Fuel oil, kerosene, etc. (%)
House heating fuel used in apartments - Coal or coke (%)
House heating fuel used in apartments - Wood (%)
House heating fuel used in apartments - Solar energy (%)
House heating fuel used in apartments - Other fuel (%)
House heating fuel used in apartments - No fuel used (%)
Armed forces status - In Armed Forces (%)
Armed forces status - Civilian (%)
Armed forces status - Civilian - Veteran (%)
Armed forces status - Civilian - Nonveteran (%)
Fatal accidents locations in years 2005-2021
Fatal accidents locations in 2005
Fatal accidents locations in 2006
Fatal accidents locations in 2007
Fatal accidents locations in 2008
Fatal accidents locations in 2009
Fatal accidents locations in 2010
Fatal accidents locations in 2011
Fatal accidents locations in 2012
Fatal accidents locations in 2013
Fatal accidents locations in 2014
Fatal accidents locations in 2015
Fatal accidents locations in 2016
Fatal accidents locations in 2017
Fatal accidents locations in 2018
Fatal accidents locations in 2019
Fatal accidents locations in 2020
Fatal accidents locations in 2021
Alcohol use - People drinking some alcohol every month (%)
Alcohol use - People not drinking at all (%)
Alcohol use - Average days/month drinking alcohol
Alcohol use - Average drinks/week
Alcohol use - Average days/year people drink much
Audiometry - Average condition of hearing (%)
Audiometry - People that can hear a whisper from across a quiet room (%)
Audiometry - People that can hear normal voice from across a quiet room (%)
Audiometry - Ears ringing, roaring, buzzing (%)
Audiometry - Had a job exposure to loud noise (%)
Audiometry - Had off-work exposure to loud noise (%)
Blood Pressure & Cholesterol - Has high blood pressure (%)
Blood Pressure & Cholesterol - Checking blood pressure at home (%)
Blood Pressure & Cholesterol - Frequently checking blood cholesterol (%)
Blood Pressure & Cholesterol - Has high cholesterol level (%)
Consumer Behavior - Money monthly spent on food at supermarket/grocery store
Consumer Behavior - Money monthly spent on food at other stores
Consumer Behavior - Money monthly spent on eating out
Consumer Behavior - Money monthly spent on carryout/delivered foods
Consumer Behavior - Income spent on food at supermarket/grocery store (%)
Consumer Behavior - Income spent on food at other stores (%)
Consumer Behavior - Income spent on eating out (%)
Consumer Behavior - Income spent on carryout/delivered foods (%)
Current Health Status - General health condition (%)
Current Health Status - Blood donors (%)
Current Health Status - Has blood ever tested for HIV virus (%)
Current Health Status - Left-handed people (%)
Dermatology - People using sunscreen (%)
Diabetes - Diabetics (%)
Diabetes - Had a blood test for high blood sugar (%)
Diabetes - People taking insulin (%)
Diet Behavior & Nutrition - Diet health (%)
Diet Behavior & Nutrition - Milk product consumption (# of products/month)
Diet Behavior & Nutrition - Meals not home prepared (#/week)
Diet Behavior & Nutrition - Meals from fast food or pizza place (#/week)
Diet Behavior & Nutrition - Ready-to-eat foods (#/month)
Diet Behavior & Nutrition - Frozen meals/pizza (#/month)
Drug Use - People that ever used marijuana or hashish (%)
Drug Use - Ever used hard drugs (%)
Drug Use - Ever used any form of cocaine (%)
Drug Use - Ever used heroin (%)
Drug Use - Ever used methamphetamine (%)
Health Insurance - People covered by health insurance (%)
Kidney Conditions-Urology - Avg. # of times urinating at night
Medical Conditions - People with asthma (%)
Medical Conditions - People with anemia (%)
Medical Conditions - People with psoriasis (%)
Medical Conditions - People with overweight (%)
Medical Conditions - Elderly people having difficulties in thinking or remembering (%)
Medical Conditions - People who ever received blood transfusion (%)
Medical Conditions - People having trouble seeing even with glass/contacts (%)
Medical Conditions - People with arthritis (%)
Medical Conditions - People with gout (%)
Medical Conditions - People with congestive heart failure (%)
Medical Conditions - People with coronary heart disease (%)
Medical Conditions - People with angina pectoris (%)
Medical Conditions - People who ever had heart attack (%)
Medical Conditions - People who ever had stroke (%)
Medical Conditions - People with emphysema (%)
Medical Conditions - People with thyroid problem (%)
Medical Conditions - People with chronic bronchitis (%)
Medical Conditions - People with any liver condition (%)
Medical Conditions - People who ever had cancer or malignancy (%)
Mental Health - People who have little interest in doing things (%)
Mental Health - People feeling down, depressed, or hopeless (%)
Mental Health - People who have trouble sleeping or sleeping too much (%)
Mental Health - People feeling tired or having little energy (%)
Mental Health - People with poor appetite or overeating (%)
Mental Health - People feeling bad about themself (%)
Mental Health - People who have trouble concentrating on things (%)
Mental Health - People moving or speaking slowly or too fast (%)
Mental Health - People having thoughts they would be better off dead (%)
Oral Health - Average years since last visit a dentist
Oral Health - People embarrassed because of mouth (%)
Oral Health - People with gum disease (%)
Oral Health - General health of teeth and gums (%)
Oral Health - Average days a week using dental floss/device
Oral Health - Average days a week using mouthwash for dental problem
Oral Health - Average number of teeth
Pesticide Use - Households using pesticides to control insects (%)
Pesticide Use - Households using pesticides to kill weeds (%)
Physical Activity - People doing vigorous-intensity work activities (%)
Physical Activity - People doing moderate-intensity work activities (%)
Physical Activity - People walking or bicycling (%)
Physical Activity - People doing vigorous-intensity recreational activities (%)
Physical Activity - People doing moderate-intensity recreational activities (%)
Physical Activity - Average hours a day doing sedentary activities
Physical Activity - Average hours a day watching TV or videos
Physical Activity - Average hours a day using computer
Physical Functioning - People having limitations keeping them from working (%)
Physical Functioning - People limited in amount of work they can do (%)
Physical Functioning - People that need special equipment to walk (%)
Physical Functioning - People experiencing confusion/memory problems (%)
Physical Functioning - People requiring special healthcare equipment (%)
Prescription Medications - Average number of prescription medicines taking
Preventive Aspirin Use - Adults 40+ taking low-dose aspirin (%)
Reproductive Health - Vaginal deliveries (%)
Reproductive Health - Cesarean deliveries (%)
Reproductive Health - Deliveries resulted in a live birth (%)
Reproductive Health - Pregnancies resulted in a delivery (%)
Reproductive Health - Women breastfeeding newborns (%)
Reproductive Health - Women that had a hysterectomy (%)
Reproductive Health - Women that had both ovaries removed (%)
Reproductive Health - Women that have ever taken birth control pills (%)
Reproductive Health - Women taking birth control pills (%)
Reproductive Health - Women that have ever used Depo-Provera or injectables (%)
Reproductive Health - Women that have ever used female hormones (%)
Sexual Behavior - People 18+ that ever had sex (vaginal, anal, or oral) (%)
Sexual Behavior - Males 18+ that ever had vaginal sex with a woman (%)
Sexual Behavior - Males 18+ that ever performed oral sex on a woman (%)
Sexual Behavior - Males 18+ that ever had anal sex with a woman (%)
Sexual Behavior - Males 18+ that ever had any sex with a man (%)
Sexual Behavior - Females 18+ that ever had vaginal sex with a man (%)
Sexual Behavior - Females 18+ that ever performed oral sex on a man (%)
Sexual Behavior - Females 18+ that ever had anal sex with a man (%)
Sexual Behavior - Females 18+ that ever had any kind of sex with a woman (%)
Sexual Behavior - Average age people first had sex
Sexual Behavior - Average number of female sex partners in lifetime (males 18+)
Sexual Behavior - Average number of female vaginal sex partners in lifetime (males 18+)
Sexual Behavior - Average age people first performed oral sex on a woman (18+)
Sexual Behavior - Average number of woman performed oral sex on in lifetime (18+)
Sexual Behavior - Average number of male sex partners in lifetime (males 18+)
Sexual Behavior - Average number of male anal sex partners in lifetime (males 18+)
Sexual Behavior - Average age people first performed oral sex on a man (18+)
Sexual Behavior - Average number of male oral sex partners in lifetime (18+)
Sexual Behavior - People using protection when performing oral sex (%)
Sexual Behavior - Average number of times people have vaginal or anal sex a year
Sexual Behavior - People having sex without condom (%)
Sexual Behavior - Average number of male sex partners in lifetime (females 18+)
Sexual Behavior - Average number of male vaginal sex partners in lifetime (females 18+)
Sexual Behavior - Average number of female sex partners in lifetime (females 18+)
Sexual Behavior - Circumcised males 18+ (%)
Sleep Disorders - Average hours sleeping at night
Sleep Disorders - People that has trouble sleeping (%)
Smoking-Cigarette Use - People smoking cigarettes (%)
Taste & Smell - People 40+ having problems with smell (%)
Taste & Smell - People 40+ having problems with taste (%)
Taste & Smell - People 40+ that ever had wisdom teeth removed (%)
Taste & Smell - People 40+ that ever had tonsils teeth removed (%)
Taste & Smell - People 40+ that ever had a loss of consciousness because of a head injury (%)
Taste & Smell - People 40+ that ever had a broken nose or other serious injury to face or skull (%)
Taste & Smell - People 40+ that ever had two or more sinus infections (%)
Weight - Average height (inches)
Weight - Average weight (pounds)
Weight - Average BMI
Weight - People that are obese (%)
Weight - People that ever were obese (%)
Weight - People trying to lose weight (%)
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. Still, have a secret stash......
LOL Funny cause she was an angel with everyone but me. and before anyone ask why? I liked the abuse lol JK 
