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I'm darkskin Black woman and not mixed looking at all. I heard that in Toronto there are a lot of beautiful biracial looking black women. Will I stand a chance finding a man out here?
I'm darkskin Black woman and not mixed looking at all. I heard that in Toronto there are a lot of beautiful biracial looking black women. Will I stand a chance finding a man out here?
Will it be hard for a darkskinned Black woman to date out in Toronto?
I'm darkskin Black woman and not mixed looking at all. I heard that in Toronto there are a lot of beautiful biracial looking black women. Will I stand a chance finding a man out here?
Hi. I thought your question was a curious one so I did a quick review of your other 204 posts on CD. I discovered that in nearly all of your posts you are indicating how angry and depressed you are because you have very dark skin, that you compare yourself with people of lighter color, that you equate beauty and social status with light color and that you've been bleaching your skin since you were a teenager and are still not happy with the results.
It reminded me of young girls and women who have anorexia disorder and will never be happy with their weight no matter how much weight they lose and how skinny and skeletal they are.
True beauty is only skin deep and that beauty is the beauty that lies under the skin, not on the surface. Under the circumstances of you being obsessed with the darkness of your skin which you cannot change to a lighter color and you not being able to get beyond color I think that no matter what town you are in you will have difficulties getting involved in a meaningful relationship. There are many women who are as ugly as sin but are still in good relationships because they aren't obsessed with surface appearances and they allow the beauty within themselves to shine out and light up their lives. I think most men want women who are happy, confident and accepting of themselves the way they are naturally and that you need to focus on whatever beauty you have within yourself instead of focusing on your surface appearance.
Yeah, I've read some of your other posts and I think you might have some characteristics with body dysmorphic disorder. Maybe within your community light skin is prized above dark skin, but there are many places where black is beautiful. Look at the Dinka people of Southern Sudan - they are perhaps the darkest-skinned women in Africa and they are absolutely beautiful. Because beauty has nothing to do with skin color or shade - it's about a smile, a laugh, a friendly glance, a look of sympathy or empathy, or tenderness. Beauty is so much role than skin color and you need to move somewhere and find a community where people value you for more than than the shade of your skin. From what I know, sometimes this pathological distaste for blackness is actually stronger in the black community than in the white one.
I'm darkskin Black woman and not mixed looking at all. I heard that in Toronto there are a lot of beautiful biracial looking black women. Will I stand a chance finding a man out here?
If Wesley Snipes could find love in Hollywood then YOU will love in TORONTO!
Are you all the same people, I swaer I saw like 3 other post by dark skinned black women quesitoning/complaining about there sexual lives. This is strange because I don't see indian/chinese/ latin/ philipinas or any other women doing this. Maybe your problem.
I think zoisite is right. If you are all obsessed about your dark skinnedness and probably missing opportunities around you.
I also agree with tokidd, I have yet to see any of the black or white posters here who are male write about a specific distaste for dark skinn black women. So it seems you are the biggest perpetuator of your own problem.
The OP's posts would be funny if they weren't so sad.
I went back and read some after ToKidd's comment.
In one post the OP wrote: 'I don't like my West African bone structure at all. I was hoping there would be surgery that could make my head shape look less African. does this exist?'
Well yes she could get a head surgery but she could die if there are complications or if she gets infection and she better be rich because even rich americans like michael jackson never seem to be able to get a good nose job never mind facial reconstruction
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