Single Lady Tri-Cities Area

[j_k_k]

Oh, and the other thing I miss we have already talked about in another thread and here: quality Mexican food. The best Mexican place in Beavertron/Aloha would not survive across the street from Hacienda del Sol, 3 Margaritas, Cinco de Mayo, Garibaldi, or Inca. The best Mexican place in Boise would have a tough go anywhere in the Tri. And here's a surprise: Thai food in Beavertron is very hit-and-miss. I miss Thai Spice, and that shouldn't even be possible.

It's not for everyone. It depends what people want. There's a definite correlation between youth/disliking TC and aging/liking TC. The best thing that could happen would be for Wazzu-TC to turn itself into a real, full-dress university, or failing that, starting the long-needed Southern Washington University. However, that will not occur because the Cougs would chuck an absolute hissy fit. I see why, but it does work to the detriment of the TC.

[pnwguy2]

WSU's growth in the Tri-Cities is slow, no doubt. However, their expansion is significant. The residential part of the expansion has been pushed back some, but I still think they consider the area to be their prime expansion area. "WSUT", might be a good name, or maybe "WSUR", but I think this process is going to continue to be slow and grow. UW has very little presence here.

[j_k_k]

Originally Posted by pnwguy2

UW has very little presence here.

I know. About half of it left with me.

[nova1967]

From my experience the Tri Cities is not friendly towards single people, While its a great place to raise a family, it has limited opportunities for singles. Its one of those places where all there is to do is eat and hang out at Wal Mart.
Its great for hunting or fishing but that limits the opportunity to find a soul mate.
I also notice the Police are very strict and will follow people home from bars hoping to get a DUI arrest.
The Seattle area or some other large metro area would be more suitable for a single person.

[pnwguy2]

Originally Posted by nova1967

From my experience the Tri Cities is not friendly towards single people, While its a great place to raise a family, it has limited opportunities for singles. Its one of those places where all there is to do is eat and hang out at Wal Mart.
Its great for hunting or fishing but that limits the opportunity to find a soul mate.
I also notice the Police are very strict and will follow people home from bars hoping to get a DUI arrest.
The Seattle area or some other large metro area would be more suitable for a single person.

I won't argue that the Tri is not a great area for singles. In fact, my experience is that many 19-25 year olds who grew up here are very anxious to move to a bigger city, usually Portland or Seattle, or even California.

However, one important element here is not all "singles" are the same. Not everyone needs a bigger city, not everyone needs to move away. I am working a service industry job currently, and I see so many in this age group still living here, (for whatever reason).

The police here sometimes get a bad rap. However, I am fine with their performance. It isn't Mayberry, but it isn't Seattle, either.

And absolutely nobody hangs out at Wal-Mart. They do cross the street to Panda Express, however.

[nova1967]

I was born and raised in the Tri Cities, left for the military and experienced big city life in California and Hawaii, came back in my in my early 20s to attend CBC. Returning was a tough transition. I am a very social person and don't fit in well as a single guy in a community where Saturday night consists of a bunch of deadbeats playing pool.
The Richland Police are very competent and the crime rate is low. In places like West Richland there is not much going on so it common to get a ticket going 37 MPH in a 35 MPH zone. You have the good with the bad.

[pnwguy2]

Originally Posted by nova1967

I was born and raised in the Tri Cities, left for the military and experienced big city life in California and Hawaii, came back in my in my early 20s to attend CBC. Returning was a tough transition. I am a very social person and don't fit in well as a single guy in a community where Saturday night consists of a bunch of deadbeats playing pool.
The Richland Police are very competent and the crime rate is low. In places like West Richland there is not much going on so it common to get a ticket going 37 MPH in a 35 MPH zone. You have the good with the bad.

It sounds like you are somewhat undecided if you want to live in The Tri, or somewhere else. I totally get that the "social" scene here is not that exciting. Yes, the area mainly attracts young families, but also retirees who like the low cost of living and sunshine, compared with other NW areas. The good side of Tri-Cities is the area continues to boom, and is still affordable to buy a house, though that cost has gone up about 10-15% just in the past year. Apartments for rent are high. It may come down to if you enjoy the climate, the laid-back lifestyle, the lower cost of living...or if that isn't enough to keep you here.
Of course, only you can make that decision and if you are still young, (which is my guess), you will go back and forth on this for many years ahead. That is OK, and is normal. I will say, from experience, there is no perfect place out there. I wish you the best.