I posted awhile ago about the indecision we had about inviting my sister and her family to my sons wedding.
That post is here
//www.city-data.com/forum/weddings/
My son and his fiancé decided to not invite them. We supported them in this decision.
Fast forward.
At Christmas (we were not there) my eldest brother told several family members that he was bringing said sister as his plus 1.
These family members felt like they should warn us.
I don’t want to add fuel to this by giving it attention. We are less than two months from the wedding day.
I have not mentioned it to the bride or groom. But did in passing ask who had rsvped. This brother has not RSVP yet.
We are not sure whether to intervene and confront him or let it lie.
I really don’t want my son and his bride to be upset if the rsvp comes with his plus one as her.
This is supposed to be a happy time. I’d like to keep it as stress free for them as possible.
Suggestions?