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Originally Posted by Threestep2
Get on a plane or start driving.
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Exactly. My mother (age 96) suddenly felt ill and went into the hospital on a Friday. I went to pick her up on Saturday morning. My sister was with her. I pull into the parking lot and my sister calls. Tells me out mother's heart gave out twice and if it happens again she doesn't want to be brought back. She's requesting a priest. WHF?
I rush upstairs to her hospital room and my mother says if it's her time it's her time. However, she wants a priest to give her last rites. O.k. the priest comes and performs last rites.
She appeared to be in better spirits and requested to be brought back home. The doctors agreed and would provide the necessary medication for her pain as well as a nurse to come by.
Sunday I was able to spend some time alone with her and to say my good-byes. I was extremely sad and shocked at what was happening but am eternally grateful for the chance to say what needed to be said.
She passed away early Monday evening.
So yes... get over to see your father as soon as possible while there is time to say goodbye.