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I currently live in Albuquerque, NM because I'm in my sixth year as an undergrad at UNM, but I'm close to being done. Anyways, I have not had much luck when it came to the dating scene. I feel most if not all the girls at UNM are already in relationships or seeing someone, and I was told that guys outnumber girls at UNM; men do outnumber women in the western US, including NM.
So I'm considering relocating to Charlotte, NC, and one of the reasons is because there are more women than men in NC, and I may get a better chance finding love there.
What's the dating scene like in Charlotte and anywhere in North Carolina compared to New Mexcio?
Quite honestly it sucks being a single male in Charlotte. Most women are divas and are status obsessed drama queens, if you are very rich, male model looking then you would have no problem but not many women here care about men with some substance to them. They are mostly immature and after the frat boy types even when the women are into their late 30s.
Go to Whisky River in epicenter or any place around there, you would find all the tramps I described above. Oh, another place to find dumb superficial chicks looking to be the prize for the night would be this "NYC wannabe" club called Butter.
Gee, I never would have known that "most" women in this city are "status obsessed divas" chasing "frat boy types" without the help of mr one-post-wonder.
We've had threads on this before. Singles generally come here to advance a career. But people do meet others here, although it tends to be through work, social clubs, private parties, churches. Does anybody really find an actual date by hanging around nightclubs? Those places are designed to entertain and sell drinks. Not create an environment for 2 people to get acquainted.
Quite honestly it sucks being a single male in Charlotte. Most women are divas and are status obsessed drama queens, if you are very rich, male model looking then you would have no problem but not many women here care about men with some substance to them. They are mostly immature and after the frat boy types even when the women are into their late 30s.
Go to Whisky River in epicenter or any place around there, you would find all the tramps I described above. Oh, another place to find dumb superficial chicks looking to be the prize for the night would be this "NYC wannabe" club called Butter.
clubs are where people go to hook up/drink/dance...
First friday, grocery stores, church, exhibits, social activities... this is where you will find some potential. The music in clubs are loud for a reason... shut up and dance.
Quite honestly it sucks being a single male in Charlotte. Most women are divas and are status obsessed drama queens, if you are very rich, male model looking then you would have no problem but not many women here care about men with some substance to them. They are mostly immature and after the frat boy types even when the women are into their late 30s.
Go to Whisky River in epicenter or any place around there, you would find all the tramps I described above. Oh, another place to find dumb superficial chicks looking to be the prize for the night would be this "NYC wannabe" club called Butter.
I suppose if one's entire experience with women is what is found in a few bars, one may end up with an opinion similar to yours. But I suspect your shortcomings are at the center of your attitude.
OTOH, over the years I've met, and friends have met, quality people in bars and clubs.
I mentioned Charlotte potentially being a better dating scene for guys than Albuquerque because guys outnumber girls in Albuquerque, which is a big reason why Albuquerque girls are always taken.
I mentioned Charlotte potentially being a better dating scene for guys than Albuquerque because guys outnumber girls in Albuquerque, which is a big reason why Albuquerque girls are always taken.
Consider this-do you think the guys who have the girls in Albuquerque have the same viewpoint that you do?
Quite honestly it sucks being a single male in Charlotte. Most women are divas and are status obsessed drama queens, if you are very rich, male model looking then you would have no problem but not many women here care about men with some substance to them. They are mostly immature and after the frat boy types even when the women are into their late 30s.
Go to Whisky River in epicenter or any place around there, you would find all the tramps I described above. Oh, another place to find dumb superficial chicks looking to be the prize for the night would be this "NYC wannabe" club called Butter.
If you're going to Whisky River, or anywhere in the EpiCenter on a regular basis, that's your problem right there.
At one end of the spectrum, you have places like Whisky River. The other end of the spectrum you have places like Selwyn Pub. If you're determined to try and meet someone at a bar/club, I suggest you find somewhere that's close to where you work or live- like a neighborhood restaurant or bar.
Instead of bars/clubs, you should also try to socialize at places like the Whitewater Center where people have the same type of interests. Also start looking for more community events that don't center around alcohol (don't get me wrong, I'm a drinker, but to meet a woman, you gotta look elsewhere than bars).
I currently live in Albuquerque, NM because I'm in my sixth year as an undergrad at UNM, but I'm close to being done. Anyways, I have not had much luck when it came to the dating scene. I feel most if not all the girls at UNM are already in relationships or seeing someone, and I was told that guys outnumber girls at UNM; men do outnumber women in the western US, including NM.
So I'm considering relocating to Charlotte, NC, and one of the reasons is because there are more women than men in NC, and I may get a better chance finding love there.
What's the dating scene like in Charlotte and anywhere in North Carolina compared to New Mexcio?
Hey Matt I guess no one answered your question. I am from Omaha NE and I would like to know too. I am thinking of moving to Charlotte as well. Thank you for asking the question
Hey Matt I guess no one answered your question. I am from Omaha NE and I would like to know too. I am thinking of moving to Charlotte as well. Thank you for asking the question
Why do you care about the Charlotte dating scene compared to New Mexico?
I've just arrived to Charlotte and it seems there is no dating scene here at all))) Maybe, I just don't know places. South Park?
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