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Old 11-01-2015, 08:55 PM
 
Location: Ontario, Canada
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Surely you understand that you'd have to know someone personally to see their faith in action, or lack thereof.
I know good people who do good things who have no faith, some with half-arsed faith, and some who fervently believe in some variant of God.

What I was commenting on was your pedestrian, quite lame explanation of what it meant to be born again.

It was as moving as reading about the composition of cardboard.
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Old 11-01-2015, 09:10 PM
 
Location: Free State of Texas
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I know good people who do good things who have no faith, some with half-arsed faith, and some who fervently believe in some variant of God.

What I was commenting on was your pedestrian, quite lame explanation of what it meant to be born again.

It was as moving as reading about the composition of cardboard.
You're confusing the definition of a term with a personal experience.

*Are you able to converse without diminishing others? Do you talk this way to people when you have to actually look them in the face?
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Old 11-01-2015, 09:10 PM
 
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I know good people who do good things who have no faith, some with half-arsed faith, and some who fervently believe in some variant of God.
What I was commenting on was your pedestrian, quite lame explanation of what it meant to be born again.
It was as moving as reading about the composition of cardboard.
For people like jimmie being "born again" is a ritual and magic thing achieved by following the prescribed religious formula. But jimmie's heart is sincere and he does know how to love, so he is "born of God." Unfortunately, he is smothered under the "precepts and doctrines of men" that corrupt his understanding of God. He is in for a big surprise.
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Old 11-01-2015, 09:13 PM
 
Location: Elsewhere
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Why do you believe I don't have love? I converse with you and others all the time. Methinks you make much ado about nothing.
I don't know if you do or you don't, but that wasn't really the point.

You had an opportunity to reply to that question in a completely different and personal way, and instead you backed off and did the colder, standard-issue detached bible-quote thing. There was no heart in your response. I'm just pointing out that this is a problem, and it's a common problem that causes the walls between those who put bible knowledge ahead of compassion in their conversation and those who see and hear them.

What if you said, "By born-again, I mean that after I believed, I changed. I became a different person from the one I was before." Sure, some will still be skeptical, but so what. It's more intriguing a statement than chapter and verse by rote.
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Old 11-01-2015, 09:14 PM
 
Location: Free State of Texas
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For people like jimmie being "born again" is a ritual and magic thing achieved by following the prescribed religious formula. But jimmie's heart is sincere and he does know how to love, so he is "born of God." Unfortunately, he is smothered under the "precepts and doctrines of men" that corrupt his understanding of God. He is in for a big surprise.
Is that the agape love you talk about? You know, it doesn't mean much if you don't actually practice it.
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Old 11-01-2015, 09:23 PM
 
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For people like jimmie being "born again" is a ritual and magic thing achieved by following the prescribed religious formula. But jimmie's heart is sincere and he does know how to love, so he is "born of God." Unfortunately, he is smothered under the "precepts and doctrines of men" that corrupt his understanding of God. He is in for a big surprise.
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Is that the agape love you talk about? You know, it doesn't mean much if you don't actually practice it.
I have nothing but love for you, jimmie, that is why I try so hard to open your eyes to the real Gospel of Christ.
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Old 11-02-2015, 07:06 AM
 
Location: UK
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I don't know if you do or you don't, but that wasn't really the point.

You had an opportunity to reply to that question in a completely different and personal way, and instead you backed off and did the colder, standard-issue detached bible-quote thing. There was no heart in your response. I'm just pointing out that this is a problem, and it's a common problem that causes the walls between those who put bible knowledge ahead of compassion in their conversation and those who see and hear them.

What if you said, "By born-again, I mean that after I believed, I changed. I became a different person from the one I was before." Sure, some will still be skeptical, but so what. It's more intriguing a statement than chapter and verse by rote.
The point is does your faith make you a better person? There is no point in having a faith if it doesn't make you a better person than you were before. Sadly all to often the 'born again' dogma makes many people worse, in my experience!
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Old 11-02-2015, 09:08 AM
 
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Chris Tomlin's song "Jesus Loves Me" explains very simply what I felt when I went through a Born Again type experience. Check it out when you have some time.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c8gKXu6J2wE

I was lost
I was in chains
The world had a hold of me

My heart was a stone
I was covered in shame
When He came for me

I couldn't run, couldn't run from His presence
I couldn't run, couldn't run from His arms

Jesus, He loves me, He loves me, He is for me
Jesus, how can it be, He loves me, He is for me

And it was a fire
Deep in my soul
I'll never be the same

I stepped out of the dark
And into the light
When He called my name

I couldn't run, couldn't run from His presence
I couldn't run, couldn't run from His arms

Jesus, He loves me, He loves me, He is for me
Jesus, how can it be, He loves me, He is for me


Read more: Chris Tomlin - Jesus Loves Me Lyrics | MetroLyrics

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Old 11-02-2015, 12:33 PM
 
Location: Hamburg, Deutschland
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Yes, I do believe I am worthy of love, and I also believe I have a responsiblity to return that love which I receive from others. I don't need the Christian god or the bible to tell me that.
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Old 11-02-2015, 03:21 PM
 
Location: Free State of Texas
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I have nothing but love for you, jimmie, that is why I try so hard to open your eyes to the real Gospel of Christ.
Yeah, right. That's why you belittle me even though we've never met. You need to work on yourself.
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