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Sounds like the fallen spirit to me, which is not exclusive to Christianity, but of fallen Adam period. Which opposes all that G-d is and does and by virtue of the fall, has a veil of forgetfulness placed upon him that he can no longer remember the purposes of what He did, UNTIL his covering returns and quickens it to him. Thus, he speaks evil of good, and good of evil, forgetting for the time being, that ALL THINGS work together for good for those that love the Lord (including, and especially, the cross). Peace
There is nothing inherently evil in having sex with someone you consider your mate in this life.
Evil comes from those who attempt to control others within the boundaries of their specific beliefs.
Yet, they themselves do not follow it. Where does it say we are to Lord it over others?
Personally, she should leave this man, who speaks out both side of his mouth. IMHO
There is nothing inherently evil in having sex with someone you consider your mate in this life. Evil comes from those who attempt to control others within the boundaries of their specific beliefs.
Yet, they themselves do not follow it. Where does it say we are to Lord it over others? Personally, she should leave this man, who speaks out both side of his mouth. IMHO
And WHERE did I say that it was, exactly? Perhaps you could stop trying to control me on every thread, or at least the ones where a poster is asking for help. Peace
And WHERE did I say that it was, exactly? Perhaps you could stop trying to control me on every thread, or at least the ones where a poster is asking for help. Peace
Fascinating, it's always about you.
And you love to have the last word.
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We all sin and I understand that. To water down one sexual sin over another just irritates me like a scab that wont stop itching. It's still "cheating" even if it's not being done physically.
If he is looking at porn he is already guilty of sexual immorality in my opinion, doing something with you sure isn't going to be his first time.
I can really relate to this guy though, I was so confused when I was young and I was trying to abstain from sex also, and I also had the same mentality as this guy.
He is sure not being honest with himself but I would cut him some slack, and if I was a woman, what I would do to him would change his mind.
I think you just need a whip, beat him down saying,'' NASTY, NASTY, EVIL, EVIL.''
Slap him a couple times and tell him that you are no longer interested because there be real men in the world who will look and say,'' I am a man, and you are a woman.''
There has never been anything more sexy than a controlling woman who puts a man in his place and then walks away from him.
The next day he will call and tell you that you were right and now he will do anything to make it up to you.
Just be mean as hell, and walk away like you are serious.
I had been dating this guy for a year. For awhile, we had fallen to temptation of seeing each other naked and making out. Now he claims to be "getting right with God" again and not wanting to make out anymore with me. Although, there was no actual fornication. He still technically a virgin and wants to wait until marriage. And blames me for his "sin" of us getting naked together.
So I asked him how is it different from him talking about porn, talking dirty about women and flirting with them, making sex jokes etc. I said that was a "sin" as well. Sexual sin to be more specific. It's lust after another woman. And quoted a few Bible verses. His response that we'd talk about it later. Few of his close male friends does it as well. I think their "dirty talk" about women and porn is their way of coping from a lack of sex.
He knows I'm feeling hurt about this whole thing and knows that we need to resist temptation.
This fellow is obviously not serious about a spiritual committment - or a physical one either for that matter.
Avoid this loser.......for now.
He may come around later or he may not. Meanwhile you have your own life to live and other people to meet along the way.
Seek first the Kingdom of God and all these things will be added to you.
Just because he has committed other sexual sin does not justify taking it further, and you know that.
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