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Old 07-04-2018, 06:24 PM
 
Location: near bears but at least no snakes
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At some point in our lifetimes, those who are married will likely be a caretaker to their spouse.

It's part of the deal...
Do you think he was her husband? He was her SON.

Also, as others have said, we don't know if she had dementia. Just because someone is elderly doesn't necessary mean they have dementia. It's entirely possible that she knew exactly what she was doing and planned it that way. She sounds like a difficult person to get along with.
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Old 07-04-2018, 06:28 PM
 
Location: San Francisco Bay Area
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Do you think he was her husband? He was her SON.
Yes, I know the man she murdered was her son.

PV wrote "Then consider just how hard it would have been for her son, a 72-year old man, to be her full time caretaker."

My post was related to the age mentioned.

72-year-olds regularly take care of their spouses, their siblings, and sometimes their parents. Most of us will either be the caretaker or the one cared for when we are older.

I didn't mention dementia anywhere in my post.
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Old 07-04-2018, 06:50 PM
 
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They will probably suspend the sentence.
They’ll probably put her in a nursing home with a locked psych unit.
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Old 07-04-2018, 07:13 PM
 
Location: Brooklyn, NY.
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She went from birthing him, then 72 years later, to killing him.
Nice.
Retro-active abortion I guess.
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Old 07-04-2018, 07:31 PM
 
Location: Renton, WA
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Default Why post an article from a British news source about an incident in Arizona?

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https://www.bbc.com/news/world-us-canada-44707643

So now she's probably going to prison instead.

According to the article, the son wanted to put her into a care home because "she had become difficult to live with".

P.S. on Edit: Sorry, I forgot to put "allegedly" in the title! Mods, can you please correct?

OOPS -- SORRY -- JUST SAW THAT THIS IS A DUPLICATE THREAD! There is another one in Caregiving that was posted yesterday. Mods, can you please delete this one -- or merge it with the other one?
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Canadian prisons are luxurious compared to many other prison systems in the world. I don't feel sorry for her. She will be well taken care of now.
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This didn't happen in Canada but here in Arizona. I can't imagine putting a 92 year old in prison, anywhere.
Why don't people post an article from a news source closer to where the incident took place, instead of using a link to an article in a British news source to reference an incident taking place in Arizona?

Records: 92-year-old woman kills son after refusing to be sent to assisted living facility
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Old 07-04-2018, 08:28 PM
 
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There's probably a lot more to this story than the media frenzy...I'd be interested in police calls reports to the house,social services issues.
I worked in a locked dementia care unit in a SNCF and while I guess it isn't impossible, most dont have the ability to string to lucid thoughts together,never mind,plan this execution style and conceal 2 weapons.
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Old 07-04-2018, 09:47 PM
 
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I worked in a locked dementia care unit in a SNCF and while I guess it isn't impossible, most dont have the ability to string to lucid thoughts together,never mind,plan this execution style and conceal 2 weapons.
Haven't seen anything that said the woman was suffering from dementia, though.
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Old 07-04-2018, 09:49 PM
 
Location: Texas
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At some point in our lifetimes, those who are married will likely be a caretaker to their spouse.

It's part of the deal...
He was her son and not her spouse. And even if it's "part of a deal", its tough for an elderly person to be a caregiver to someone who may have dementia and needs 24-hour a day care. It's hard even for a person half that age. .
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Old 07-05-2018, 12:05 AM
 
Location: Silicon Valley
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I don't understand the kidnapping charge. Kidnapping usually includes transporting someone from one location to another.

I read that they were all living in the girlfriend's condo. She let the son move in, then moved in his mother, who then kills her boyfriend and tries to kill her. Wow.
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Old 07-05-2018, 12:09 AM
 
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I don't understand the kidnapping charge. Kidnapping usually includes transporting someone from one location to another.

I read that they were all living in the girlfriend's condo. She let the son move in, then moved in his mother, who then kills her boyfriend and tries to kill her. Wow.
kidnapping can be just holding someone against their will. Like at the other end of a gun.
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