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Old 11-11-2017, 07:39 PM
 
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We have a 3 year old large male (fixed) dog my husband and I let sleep with us. He spent over a year in a shelter on a cold cement floor all alone and we have not been able to crate train him or even get him to sleep off the bed at night (we will go off for a while if we insist, but get back on when we fall asleep). He is the only dog we have let sleep with us, everyone before him and now slept in crates (even fosters).

Overall he is well behaved (I could do more training and he would love that, but he isn't openly defiant) and I am the top dog in our house. He follows me around over anyone else, he listens to me best, he turns to me when he has a need or is confused, etc.

But at night he parks himself between me and my husband and put his sweet block head on my husband's shoulder (or chest or stomach) and sticks his rump in my face! (well sometimes he sleeps at our feet, but if he is up between us, that is how he sleeps)

I will even call him over and scratch him, pet him and talk doggy talk to him...and as soon as I stop...head on "daddy" and rump near mommy.

Is there a meaning to this?
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Old 11-12-2017, 03:59 AM
 
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It's warm and comfortable and you let him do it.

I wouldn't read any deeper meaning into it. Dogs don't attach the same importance to "mooning" as people.
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Old 11-12-2017, 04:23 AM
 
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From what I have read, dogs that turn their back on you and give you the butt really trust you (And want a butt scratch).

But I don't know if this translates to sleeping.

The other thing is that any dog I have ever had that snuck up on the bed has again put her back to me, which I read they do as a protection thing. Not the butt, per se, but the head is always pointing in the opposite direction.
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Old 11-12-2017, 04:31 AM
 
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From what I have read, dogs that turn their back on you and give you the butt really trust you (And want a butt scratch).

But I don't know if this translates to sleeping.

The other thing is that any dog I have ever had that snuck up on the bed has again put her back to me, which I read they do as a protection thing. Not the butt, per se, but the head is always pointing in the opposite direction.
Or maybe a sniff! I was thinking about sleeping only, not how animals greet each other.

I sometimes wonder, when a cat or dog shows us its butt, and we fail to follow the normal protocol - sniffing the proffered posterior and then offering our own for inspection - do they think we are rude?
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Old 11-12-2017, 04:51 AM
 
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Or maybe a sniff! I was thinking about sleeping only, not how animals greet each other.

I sometimes wonder, when a cat or dog shows us its butt, and we fail to follow the normal protocol - sniffing the proffered posterior and then offering our own for inspection - do they think we are rude?
Given that they jam their butt against you and that I've never seen a dog jam its butt against another dog and that they look at you till you start scratching...it's the scratching.
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Old 11-12-2017, 05:16 AM
 
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Given that they jam their butt against you and that I've never seen a dog jam its butt against another dog and that they look at you till you start scratching...it's the scratching.
Well, I guess I am guilty of a major humor fail.
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Old 11-12-2017, 05:38 AM
 
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It's warm and comfortable and you let him do it.
And deep down you like it.

Cheech will start the night curled up at the foot of the bed.
When it's colder he'll do that closer and maybe with his chin on an ankle.

By morning though he'll have moved up somewhat ...
and sometimes that will have him stretched out and his head right on the pillow.
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Old 11-12-2017, 06:17 AM
 
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And deep down you like it.

Cheech will start the night curled up at the foot of the bed.
When it's colder he'll do that closer and maybe with his chin on an ankle.

By morning though he'll have moved up somewhat ...
and sometimes that will have him stretched out and his head right on the pillow.
Oh, I absolutely like it! I don't even have to dig very deep. The more of my pets who pile on the bed with me, the happier I am.
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Old 11-12-2017, 06:22 AM
 
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Well, I guess I am guilty of a major humor fail.
Not your fault.
It was so early...
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Old 11-12-2017, 06:55 AM
 
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We have a 3 year old large male (fixed) dog my husband and I let sleep with us. He spent over a year in a shelter on a cold cement floor all alone and we have not been able to crate train him or even get him to sleep off the bed at night (we will go off for a while if we insist, but get back on when we fall asleep). He is the only dog we have let sleep with us, everyone before him and now slept in crates (even fosters).

Overall he is well behaved (I could do more training and he would love that, but he isn't openly defiant) and I am the top dog in our house. He follows me around over anyone else, he listens to me best, he turns to me when he has a need or is confused, etc.

But at night he parks himself between me and my husband and put his sweet block head on my husband's shoulder (or chest or stomach) and sticks his rump in my face! (well sometimes he sleeps at our feet, but if he is up between us, that is how he sleeps)

I will even call him over and scratch him, pet him and talk doggy talk to him...and as soon as I stop...head on "daddy" and rump near mommy.

Is there a meaning to this?
Oh yes, he feels like the luckiest dog in the world.
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