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View Poll Results: can overwieght women still be hot
yes 135 66.83%
no 39 19.31%
some can, but I would never date a bigger girl 28 13.86%
Voters: 202. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 03-23-2013, 06:16 PM
 
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I'll go along that they can be attractive, but not hot, at least as I understand the term.
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Old 03-23-2013, 07:30 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Seriously, I always thought big boobs/hips/butt were all feminine physical traits; don't really see how minimizing them* is somehow supposed to make a woman more attractive. What's even more surprising is how much visible muscle some of these dudes seem to think is sexy.











* Now I know what some of y'all dudes are going to say, that you like women who have these things but are somehow slim everywhere else and not at all overweight. Hot as these women are- you do realize that they're like 1% of actual females, right? Most IRL thin women are either flat chested or have almost no butt.
Exactly JB.
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Old 03-23-2013, 07:32 PM
 
Location: Below 59th St
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Yes, absolutely yes. The sooner a man admits to himself that he can find fat girls attractive, the happier and better adjusted he'll be. They're all soft and squishy, which is great fun. Plus, tubby girls clearly like sensuality and the good things in life, and I really dig that.

On the downside, they sometimes have crushing self-esteem issues, which is a big downer.

I personally find smoking to be way way more of a turn-off.

I sure nobody cares, but my wife (and I) are amateur runners, so we're both pretty lean. I don't have any special preference, I just know that I can (and really have) appreciated chubby chicks just as much as thin ones.
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Old 03-23-2013, 07:49 PM
 
Location: Virginia Beach, VA
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Yes, absolutely yes. The sooner a man admits to himself that he can find fat girls attractive, the happier and better adjusted he'll be. They're all soft and squishy, which is great fun. Plus, tubby girls clearly like sensuality and the good things in life, and I really dig that.
I can relate 100% to this statement. When I was in high school I felt an attraction to overweight girls and didn't want to admit it back then. In the years following high school I slowly grew to a point where I realized that my best chance for success in a relationship involved being honest with myself about what kind of women I liked. I started a discussion on this a while back:

Confessions of a "Chubby Chaser"
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Old 03-23-2013, 07:57 PM
 
Location: Bellingham, WA
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Depends on what you mean by "overweight". I see plenty of slightly overweight women I find attractive, but I've never been even remotely attracted to an obese woman.
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Old 03-23-2013, 08:23 PM
 
Location: NoVa
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Seriously, I always thought big boobs/hips/butt were all feminine physical traits; don't really see how minimizing them* is somehow supposed to make a woman more attractive. What's even more surprising is how much visible muscle some of these dudes seem to think is sexy.
The two women that Capablanca posted in here aren't even big, it's their body fat percentage and how they're built.

In any case, it's just a matter of preference. Those of us that are attracted to athletic types (proportional/personal trainer types for me personally) are heavily into fitness as well.

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Old 03-23-2013, 08:57 PM
 
Location: Center of the universe
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I was just watching the NCAA tournament with some buddies and this subject came up, as there was a waitress that was on the bigger side, that a few of us found to be quite attractive. I have always thought that a woman's shape is more important than here size. The waitress that we were staring at was probably around 5-8 180lbs. She had really great curves and a pretty face. I think some of my buddies were afraid to admit that our waitress was attractive as they were making jokes about her backside and saying that she was too big.


what is your opinion on this?
Sounds like my kind of woman.
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Old 03-23-2013, 08:59 PM
 
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180 is huge though. I mean I know plenty of guys that weigh 180. I don't think they'd be very comfortable like that. Now 140 could be fine. Of course it all depends on where her fat is. If it's mostly in her boobs and butt, then that should be ok.
When I met my wife she was 5-11, 170 and fit. She's about 200 now and got as big as 240 when pregnant.
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Old 03-23-2013, 09:16 PM
 
Location: Center of the universe
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Nope. As a man, I wouldn't want to search for things under many layers of "insulation"! That's just gross. Sorry MO.

What's so wrong with having a proper BMI?
Nothing, except BMI is pretty much BS.
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Old 03-23-2013, 09:50 PM
 
Location: Miami
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I was just watching the NCAA tournament with some buddies and this subject came up, as there was a waitress that was on the bigger side, that a few of us found to be quite attractive. I have always thought that a woman's shape is more important than here size. The waitress that we were staring at was probably around 5-8 180lbs. She had really great curves and a pretty face. I think some of my buddies were afraid to admit that our waitress was attractive as they were making jokes about her backside and saying that she was too big.


what is your opinion on this?
I think many of your friends will be stuck with an overweight wife in the future so let them laugh while they can because most of them will be sharing their bed with those women they made fun of.
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