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Old 04-01-2014, 10:34 PM
 
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I've seen how women act around guys they're attracted to, and I've never seen a woman act that way around me. What else am I supposed to conclude?
The real question is:

If a woman did accept, like, and date you, but it wasn't based on physical attraction, would you be OK with that?
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Old 04-01-2014, 10:57 PM
 
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I've seen how women act around guys they're attracted to, and I've never seen a woman act that way around me. What else am I supposed to conclude?
Hard to say without a picture.
But if women are never giving you the attention, while flirting and spending time with your friends, then it is possible you are an average looking guy.

Looks will always be a first impression. And typically, the more attractive people will initially receive more attention.

OP, you have to find a way to stand out amoungst your peers. Be funny, or witty, or smart, or something. Not everyone is blessed with awesome looks, but if you don't have awesome looks while you continue to act and believe that your looks will get you dates, you will fail. Of course, work out and groom adn take care of your self, but expand who you are beyond your looks.
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Old 04-02-2014, 07:49 AM
 
Location: Houston, Tx
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Maybe in your world but I have turned down more than one mega money man who was attractive physically as well but was very unattractive because he was a terrible human.
I am not in love with money I am in love with my husband and found him and kept him when he barely owned the clothes on his back. Money is NOT everything to everyone and to me my husband is very attractive physically and he is a good man. I'm sure that he is not physically attractive to many others and I just don't care.
Yes in the CD fantasy world women don't care about money, but in the real world the facts say different.

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Old 04-02-2014, 07:51 AM
 
Location: Houston, Tx
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I find that women who say looks don't matter are usually not that attractive themselves.
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Old 04-02-2014, 07:53 AM
 
Location: Canada
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Yes in the CD fantasy world women don't care about money, but in the real world the facts say different.
YOu call CD fantasy world but the real world includes examples like Donald Trump and Howard Stern??
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Old 04-02-2014, 07:54 AM
 
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I believe you.

Oh and 14bricks, posting pics of celebrities changes nothing. They are in the minority and don't reflect normal, average people.
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Old 04-02-2014, 08:12 AM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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I find that women who say looks don't matter are usually not that attractive themselves.
Huh? Women that don't place that much importance on a man's looks are not that attractive themselves or women that think that men aren't that attracted to looks aren't that attractive? I need to find out if I'm attractive or not!
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Old 04-02-2014, 08:12 AM
 
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Any guy who thinks women choose their mates based on looks or money is lying to himself.

??? My personality is generally regarded favorably by those I know, so it must be my looks or (lack of) money.
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Old 04-02-2014, 08:16 AM
 
Location: Pa
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I call B.S. on that. Personality may help some what, but all the personality in the word is not going to make her like a guy thats unattractive. Now if you would have said its not about looks women care more about money/status then I would agree with you. We've seen many examples of that.
You are so frustrating.lol
14bricks yes a woman has to find him attractive to her.Means family members and friends could think he is eh.But if the lady finds him gorgous and vice versa that's a great inclination it may work.
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Old 04-02-2014, 08:18 AM
 
Location: Pa
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I find that women who say looks don't matter are usually not that attractive themselves.
You just called me ugly now? Lol

Damn.
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