Straight, Married Man Wears Lolita-Style Women’s Clothes to Work Every Day
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The thing is - he is not transgender or gay.
Are women wearing pants lesbians?
Oh my god. This is not going how you think it's going. I'm sorry you are so completly unfamiliar with the topic.
BECAUSE SO MANY OF THE SO-CALLED TRANSGENDER AGGRESSIVE IDEOLOGUE MTF ACTIVISTS ARE AGPs (and don't know it or try to hide it). Go read about the feelings about that swimmer person taking all the trophies and their anti female social media.
So you don't know about autogynephilia. AGPs. It's a fetish - a psychological condition. It's a sexual orientation.
It doesn't mean they're trans but can be a type of trans. You can go back DECADES to interviews with transvestites and before the language identified them, THEY disclosed dressing as female always was accompanied with masturbation.
That's what paraphila means. And AGP can be the loudest activist incel mysogynist MTF in the bunch or a quiet MYOB person.
They MAY eventually transition MTF or may never. That's called Transsexual not transgender.
Maybe you should research it instead of trying to correct people who are correct. It may take you a LONG time since you're very far behind.
You can start with THIS from the NIH. WAY back in 2011.
Another odd fellow from Asia, or maybe just very open-minded.
A 36-year-old former computer programmer and cosplay enthusiast has been getting a lot of attention on Chinese social media for his decision to wear flamboyant Lolita-style dresses and makeup to work every day.
For the past two years, he has been wearing his cosplay garments on a daily basis and spending hours every morning putting on his flashy makeup before going to work.
His wife, who shares his love for Lolita fashion, not only approves of his unusual dressing style but regularly helps him put on his makeup. D-Jiang said that he doesn’t really care what others think of his unique dressing style, because what’s important is that he likes it.
His wardrobe boasts more than 200 Lolita dresses, which cost a total of more than 400,000 yuan (US$55,000). He also keeps a meticulously organised spreadsheet detailing the prices, colours, names and frequency of wear for each dress.
“I believe that clothing has no gender. When I wear a dress, it does not mean that I am wearing women’s clothes. A dress is just a dress in itself.”
He also said that " the routine has also given him a deeper understanding of the challenges that women face."
“Before pants, everyone wore dresses. The gender of clothing is a societal convention, not something innate. This can be changed.”
As the president of his company’s anime club, he also encourages shy colleagues to do the same despite their inhibitions.
If women can wear men clothes and it's totally normal, why men wearing women clothes should be considered weird?
Men have been wearing dresses for centuries. Ancient Romans wore draped togas. Men in the 14th century wore tights under skirts almost daily.
The Great Male Renunciation (French: Grande Renonciation masculine) is the historical phenomenon at the end of the 18th century in which Western men stopped using brilliant or refined forms in their dress, which were left to women's clothing.
So, the pants trend for men is pretty recent - long gowns and full-skirted coats remained acceptable and fashionable parts of the male wardrobe until the first half of the 20th century,
BTW:
Until World War I, little boys were dressed in skirts and had long hair. Sexual “color coding” in the form of pink or blue clothing for infants was not common in this country [the US] until the 1920s; before that time male and female infants were dressed in identical white dresses.
I have always been of a mind that everyone should be allowed to freely dress however they want, as long as they are not breaking any laws. I also believe businesses have a right to require dress codes.
If this guy is allowed to express himself that way, and his wife doesn't even object, then what's the harm? Japanese culture is different from our own, so I am sure it is more widely accepted there.
Oh my god. This is not going how you think it's going. I'm sorry you are so completly unfamiliar with the topic.
BECAUSE SO MANY OF THE SO-CALLED TRANSGENDER AGGRESSIVE IDEOLOGUE MTF ACTIVISTS ARE AGPs (and don't know it or try to hide it). Go read about the feelings about that swimmer person taking all the trophies and their anti female social media.
So you don't know about autogynephilia. AGPs. It's a fetish - a psychological condition. It's a sexual orientation.
It doesn't mean they're trans but can be a type of trans. You can go back DECADES to interviews with transvestites and before the language identified them, THEY disclosed dressing as female always was accompanied with masturbation.
That's what paraphila means. And AGP can be the loudest activist incel mysogynist MTF in the bunch or a quiet MYOB person.
They MAY eventually transition MTF or may never. That's called Transsexual not transgender.
Maybe you should research it instead of trying to correct people who are correct. It may take you a LONG time since you're very far behind.
You can start with THIS from the NIH. WAY back in 2011.
This occurred to me. Of course, it would be a difficult issue to address in a working atmosphere and probably none of anyone's business unless some sexual harrassment were also taking place.
I'd draw the line at wearing dresses. I wear a kilt during the Highland Games to honor my Scots heritage and I wear leggings during yoga classes. Try that in jeans and you'll understand. Lately I've worn leggings/yoga pants as pants because of comfort and ease of getting dressed (I broke my back last winter.) At some point in life everyone stops caring what others think.
Lolita style is a Japanese subculture where people dress like Victorian dolls. It doesn't have anything to do with Nabokov or sexual practices (though everything does turn into porn, eventually.)
More power to this guy, to me, it's no weirder than walking around in a cowboy hat, boots, and jeans when you're not a rancher.
Unless you live in Texas. LOL
Anyway, speaking of where people live - this guy is from China, not Japan. Just pointing that out. Japan is a tiny country. China is huge.
Last edited by KathrynAragon; 10-31-2023 at 07:48 AM..
Straight, Married Man Wears Lolita-Style Women’s Clothes to Work Every Day
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