smann811-Sorry to hear what your son is going through, but it is good to see what the military is really about.
They do not love you, they are neither friends nor family.
You will be in service so long as you meet their needs and discarded as soon as you don't.
Veteran's forums are full of heartbreaking stories of what happens after your service is done.
Not saying it's a bad thing; I'd enlist again given the same circumstances. Just know going in what the relationship is.