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Old 08-15-2009, 06:05 AM
 
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I am about to go through a divorce and have an 8 month old daughter(tried fixing it). I am currently an A1C and talked with my shirt and i will still live off base in my apt after the divorce is finalized...my question is what kind of child rights would i have to get to be able to qualify for my BAH with dependent? Would i have to legally have my daughter live with me or is there some kind of rights that I could fight for in court? I don't know how to find info. on this subject..i've tried for days.

thank you in advance everyone
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Old 08-15-2009, 06:42 AM
 
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you'd have to have some form of shared custody where the child would reside with you. Not sure if there is a min amount.
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Old 08-15-2009, 07:54 AM
 
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I am about to go through a divorce and have an 8 month old daughter(tried fixing it). I am currently an A1C and talked with my shirt and i will still live off base in my apt after the divorce is finalized...my question is what kind of child rights would i have to get to be able to qualify for my BAH with dependent? Would i have to legally have my daughter live with me or is there some kind of rights that I could fight for in court? I don't know how to find info. on this subject..i've tried for days.

thank you in advance everyone
I looked into about.com, it appears if you have custody or have to pay some sort of child support that you get the full rate. I think at your rank it's only like $150/mo different between with and without dependent.
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Old 08-15-2009, 08:04 AM
 
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I looked into about.com, it appears if you have custody or have to pay some sort of child support that you get the full rate. I think at your rank it's only like $150/mo different between with and without dependent.

I'm in San Antonio and I currently get 1139 but without dependents its 854. AND my rent is 1052..That's the reason i'm hoping to still get the full BAH
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Old 08-15-2009, 08:48 AM
 
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I'm in San Antonio and I currently get 1139 but without dependents its 854. AND my rent is 1052..That's the reason i'm hoping to still get the full BAH
Bigger difference than I thought. Thanks for the info.
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Old 08-15-2009, 06:56 PM
 
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If you have joint custody you will get full BAH. Whatever you do consult a lawyer and get everything you and your wife agree to in black and white. You will pay for a lawyer now, but it will be cheaper than having to pay for one later if things go south. I know too many that separated with verbal agreements that quickly fall apart, especially where a child is involved.
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Old 08-16-2009, 09:14 AM
 
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You do get full BAH as has been mentioned before. You'll also have to clarify what will happen if you either get called into work or get deployed as a single parent. Make solid plans and try to get the most predictable schedule as possible - there will be emergencies (example: sick children usually aren't accepted into day care).
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