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Or maybe you just can't get these skinny Black women who have their choice of men of any race. Perhaps your own looks aren't all that.
For the record I'm a Black man who likes men, so clearly not all Black men have the SAME TASTE.........
And I do date interracially.
Clearly you as a gay man, have no interest in women, and therefore when we are discussing the tastes of black men, when it comes to women, we aren't discussing your tastes. Given that you aren't a straight man, are you really qualify to opine on the tastes of straight black men? I don't think you are any more than I can opine about the taste of gay black men.
Given that 90% of married black women, have black husbands, I will suggest to you that black men do better in attracting black women, than do other men. I will suggest to you, that given that there isn't a heavy demand among black women to be anorexic, but in fact to be curvy, then the boyish look doesn't seem to be in tremendous demand.
Because if indeed black men craved boyish shaped anorexic women, then black women would be aspiring for that shape, just as in fact white women do. Because white men do tend to go for the more anorexic look.
The best black women I came across we're either down south or out west. Black women in NYC have way too much of inner personal issues descents into the dating arena in this city. I find black women here to be very difficult and extremely shallow. Not sure which one is worse? The natural hair, slick and slim, beautiful educated black women who prefer only white men, or weave wearing, nice booty, gyrating tight, wide mouth black women that live in the hood? Can't seem to get a foot hold on neither.
down here at brighton beach, i just saw a white lady (looked russian) with a black guy couple. they must have been in mid 20s to early 30s. that is rare here. this matchup is likelier found in manhattan. whenever i go to nyc, i see a lot of interracial couples as well as mixes of all types. i just saw two asian girls (lesbians) at my gym. it is good to see diversity. live how you like. answer to topic is stay in manhattan where there are more open minded ppl.
The best black women I came across we're either down south or out west. Black women in NYC have way too much of inner personal issues descents into the dating arena in this city. I find black women here to be very difficult and extremely shallow. Not sure which one is worse? The natural hair, slick and slim, beautiful educated black women who prefer only white men, or weave wearing, nice booty, gyrating tight, wide mouth black women that live in the hood? Can't seem to get a foot hold on neither.
My you do have issues. Dude work on yourself and on your financial future and you will be able to have your choice of women.
Black women are no different or less desirable than any of the other races of women.
The quality of black woman that you have access to totally depends on the circles that you hang around.
I have traveled many places over the years and can say that....even with all of the dating difficulties that exist....New York City is one of the top places for a single guy to be.
The sheer number of singles alone make it a top destination for those interested in interracial dating.
Nah I'm good. I have a few Latinas up my sleeve already who want something long-term and meaningful.
Yet you don't have anything long term and meaningful with them, do you? Or else you wouldn't have made those comments about the black women you just made.
Black women are no different or less desirable than any of the other races of women.
The quality of black woman that you have access to totally depends on the circles that you hang around.
I have traveled many places over the years and can say that....even with all of the dating difficulties that exist....New York City is one of the top places for a single guy to be.
The sheer number of singles alone make it a top destination for those interested in interracial dating.
And the circles you hang around depends on your own personal quality. Water always finds its own level.
Yet you don't have anything long term and meaningful with them, do you? Or else you wouldn't have made those comments about the black women you just made.
Don't play yourself!
Let's just come to terms that BronxGuyanese doesn't really care for Black women for whatever reason. If he feels like Hispanic women are "better", (which they aren't), then I guess he has a right to think that. Can't say I'm surprised though to be honest. I think personally NYC is filled with awesome Black women (including myself), and if he's too dense or unable to snag any, then he's losing out quite frankly. I and other Black women won't be losing sleep over it
Black women are no different or less desirable than any of the other races of women.
The quality of black woman that you have access to totally depends on the circles that you hang around.
I have traveled many places over the years and can say that....even with all of the dating difficulties that exist....New York City is one of the top places for a single guy to be.
The sheer number of singles alone make it a top destination for those interested in interracial dating.
I agree with this. To be honest, their is nothing monolithic about black women, especially black women in NYC. They too have wants, needs, what turns them on, attractions, work, or career iPhone in their bag and etc. Regardless, of income strata, educational attainment, whether if she lives in the projects, or with some roommates in Williamsburg, black women here don't really have a problem finding someone unless if they are looking for something long term which is always an issue. Me personally as a single guy Miami is best. But overall I agree, it all depends on circle, and the community of circle which here in NYC depending on where on lives or knows requires work or it has to be built out.
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Yet you don't have anything long term and meaningful with them, do you? Or else you wouldn't have made those comments about the black women you just made.
Don't play yourself!
Oh of course I do. Here in NYC I pointed out and noted the importance of physical attraction here amongst the ladies. Again nothing wrong with this. I have been to Miami, meeting women of any race was easy. I Met a group of black women and we started talking, hanged and following me just because I was like wow you ladies are really hot, and again I'm not a cat caller. Here in NYC due to my racial mixed makeup, I mainly pull Latina women and other mixed women, and dark skinned white women. Nothing wrong with this. I like women of all races, but I find black women here to be difficult not to deal with, but to obtain. Here in this city I mainly see black women with either Black men, or in hip areas white yuppie men. Nothing else in between.
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Let's just come to terms that BronxGuyanese doesn't really care for Black women for whatever reason. If he feels like Hispanic women are "better", (which they aren't), then I guess he has a right to think that. Can't say I'm surprised though to be honest. I think personally NYC is filled with awesome Black women (including myself), and if he's too dense or unable to snag any, then he's losing out quite frankly. I and other Black women won't be losing sleep over it
I cant say I'm dense in the head and I'm pretty broad out there in scope, but of course the ladies here are not sleeping over it. This is NYC! Women can go outside and get something in a second, especially black women! Of course I care about black women, hell I have black women in my extended family and black female freinds and hope they all find a meaningful guy for the long run or grand scheme of life, sadly this never happens, and an episodic rinse and repeat persists. Most important thing is to find a good man, that is solid, well rounded, and not to worry about anything that is all about exterior or exterior based.
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