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OP needs to post more details but here in Australia someone handling your breasts without your co-operation would be considered sexual assault and quite likely the police will be called.
They can be polite for you...
I also think this is an occasion where it would be morally acceptable to knee him in the nuts.
Is there a sweet way of asking a guy to not touch your breasts?
What do you mean by SWEET ? ? ?
I am a grown man, and if a woman whould grab, or rub my butt, or my privates,
( and if I did NOT want here to do so ) I would not say stop in a SWEET way ! ! !
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Pull away fast the first time he does it, and give him a look like "that's not okay". Doesn't get it?
As he's approaching, before he actually touches them: "Please don't touch my breasts." Still doesn't get it?
Again, before he even manages to touch them again: "If you touch my breasts one more time, I will file a sexual harassment report."
Since this is likely at one of your swinger parties, tell him flat out not to do that. Of course, at those parties, you pretty much left yourself open to that sort of behavior. I mean, you're there to have sex with the men, how is he to know you don't want him trying?
Pull away fast the first time he does it, and give him a look like "that's not okay". Doesn't get it?
As he's approaching, before he actually touches them: "Please don't touch my breasts." Still doesn't get it?
Again, before he even manages to touch them again: "If you touch my breasts one more time, I will file a sexual harassment report."
that is the best! I have a married male friend who paws all over me, arm around lower waist, lower back, eventually lower. He brushes up against my chest (it's small so that is an effort as an "accident" ) but though I care about his friendship, I cannot stand the pawing. I ended up inventing a reason to start an argument, so I probably won't have to deal with him anymore, but had I tried your first way to deter him, we'd still be friends. I wanted to keep him as a friend because he's intellectually stimulating and he's been a caring supportive friend for near 10 years.
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