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Originally Posted by I'm Retired Now
It's amazing how much time I have to spend with people who I share absolutely no conversational chemistry. They are usually friends of my wife, relatives or people who are in various groups I participate in. I use every trick in the book to get the conversation in gear to make it interesting for everyone but both parties appear to be unsatisfied. I leave the event bored to tears and they give me the impression they feel the same. At least I try.
Is this common with you and how do you cope? (Don't tell me I don't have to attend, I do!)
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I don't think you DO have to attend. If your wife knows you are bored to tears, she should be more understanding.
I am in my mid 60's and we now pretty much only spend time with people who interest us. We even avoid many close family members and have come to realize how relieved we have become. It takes practice. Try it.