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Right now I'm pissed off and this just happened a couple hours ago (I'm a girl BTW). Just got into an heated argument with her. After exchanging words, she slapped me kinda of hard and then I turned around and slapped her back. My slap wasn't even hard comparing to hers; would have done it harder if it were a friend or someone else.
Part of me feels guilty but then I dunno. She started it. Yet, she was totally shocked as if not expecting it. We're not on speaking terms at this moment.
Or should I have just walked away as my older brother suggested. He thinks I was still in the wrong and is also not speaking to me. What was also upsetting is he brought back the ''But I walked away remember'' last year's argument with him as well too. I slapped him because he was being a total jerk. At the point, I got upset and told him to just get out of my room and how this stupid comparison was no where similar to what just happened. They are both acting like I'm the only one in the wrong. I don't think so.
Or I'm I really the wrong one? Though I'm pissed off right now, I'm also feeling some guilt at the same time.
How old are you? Neither you nor your mother should be hitting each other. If you're an adult living with her, you might see if you can move out. If you're a child, that's more complicated.
My sister kicked my mom once when she was 19. We were all shocked. My mom had to have an x-ray and she had a huge lump on her leg and then a bruise that didn't go away for more than a month. The irony in the situation was that my mom never hit that sister, but she used to beat the rest of us.
I don't really know what to tell you, except that you will be a lot happier in a living situation where no one hits you and you don't have to decide whether or not to fight back. I moved out of my mom's house when I was 18 because I was tired of being beaten. Once I didn't live there anymore, she never tried to hit me again.
Right now I'm pissed off and this just happened a couple hours ago (I'm a girl BTW). Just got into an heated argument with her. After exchanging words, she slapped me kinda of hard and then I turned around and slapped her back. My slap wasn't even hard comparing to hers; would have done it harder if it were a friend or someone else.
Part of me feels guilty but then I dunno. She started it. Yet, she was totally shocked as if not expecting it. We're not on speaking terms at this moment.
Or should I have just walked away as my older brother suggested. He thinks I was still in the wrong and is also not speaking to me. What was also upsetting is he brought back the ''But I walked away remember'' last year's argument with him as well too. I slapped him because he was being a total jerk. At the point, I got upset and told him to just get out of my room and how this stupid comparison was no where similar to what just happened. They are both acting like I'm the only one in the wrong. I don't think so.
Or I'm I really the wrong one? Though I'm pissed off right now, I'm also feeling some guilt at the same time.
Sounds like all of you need to learn to keep your hands to yourself.
You have no right to physically hit anyone I don't care how PO you are.
Keep your hands to yourself and if you were my "friend" and hit me you would no longer be my friend.
You are 18 and it is time to move.
Your writing does not reflect your age though, I thought you might be 12 or 13 with the "she started it/he started it".
I can guarantee you if I had ever slapped my Mother I would not be breathing at this moment.
She slapped you, though, and apparently you slapped him?
Jerry...Jerry....Jerry
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