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There was this girl who I knew last semester in college through class. We became pretty good friends, however, when I asked her out towards the end of the semester, she said no. Now it's the next semester and we haven't kept in touch since. I still kind of want to reach out to her and grab lunch with her just as friends, since I'm pretty much over her now. How should I do it so that it wouldn't be too awkward?
There was this girl who I knew last semester in college through class. We became pretty good friends, however, when I asked her out towards the end of the semester, she said no. Now it's the next semester and we haven't kept in touch since. I still kind of want to reach out to her and grab lunch with her just as friends, since I'm pretty much over her now. How should I do it so that it wouldn't be too awkward?
Why not just text her and say "Haven't seen you in a while, wanna catch up over lunch?" Its only awkward if you make it awkward.
I would forget about her and move on. She wasn't interested then; she's not interested now.
This.
She's likely to see your offer as another attempt. I do think it's pretty neat that you actually think she'd respond positively to your innocent and casually-offered lunch.
This. You are only fooling yourself when you say you think you are over her. You aren't.
Except I'm not fooling myself because I like someone else right now? Maybe I should explicitly state I'm not asking her out if I message her asking her for lunch
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Originally Posted by ItsRick24
I would forget about her and move on. She wasn't interested then; she's not interested now.
Not romantically, but that's not what I'm after this time.
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