Should I go to friend's family Thanksgiving party? (husband, person, holidays)

[nam2015]

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[clarksvillemom]

You need to talk to someone. If this friend is a good person, you should reach out. Maybe before Thanksgiving - maybe a phone call

[nam2015]

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[jaypee]

IMO, isolating yourself with your problems, especially over the holidays, is not very healthy. I think you should make an effort to go to this Thanksgiving dinner and attempt to socialize more in addition to finding a therapist or just a friend to talk to about these issues. It may or may not be helpful to you to find that your particular life issues are neither unique nor uncommon and there's little reason to be embarrassed about.

[Ms. Tarabotti]

Yes, you need to talk to some one about your problems.

You are important and your feelings matter. You need help to explore why you feel this way and how you can cope. You are in a sense mourning for your old life and the loss of your job. Instead of trying to help you, your husband is lashing out and calling you names. This is NOT acceptable. You have to talk to someone.

I see that OP's posts have been deleted. Hopefully the thread has moved but if you are still reading the responses, OP, find a good therapist.

[nam2015]

Thanks for the comments, so, yes, I will find a therapist to vent all my frustrations, otherwise my husband has told me he will divorce me after i left friends (and family) not once but twice in my life for him and didn't even contemplate divorce when he lost his job and was a mess himself, it really sucks and I am really a sucker.