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Old 02-16-2015, 10:56 AM
 
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Married or single, I generally avoid that kind of thing at work-related functions, as I don't think it's professional. In social settings, I'm not a fan of greeting anyone but relatives or very close friends with a kiss on the cheek, regardless.

Heck, I don't think I kiss people on the cheek at all, come to think of it. An "A" hug--shoulder to shoulder--is about as far as I go. If anything, I'm paranoid about getting lipstick on them, and as mentioned in another thread somewhere on here, I'm not a fan of people putting their spit on my face. There's nothing worse than feeling that wet or lipsticky spot on your cheek when the air hits it.
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Old 02-16-2015, 11:16 AM
 
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Again, you are obsessing over older women, period.
I do like older women, but that has nothing to do with my post you quotes. You should work on your reading comprehension.
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Old 02-16-2015, 11:17 AM
 
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Enjoy the attention it was harmless, but it excited you a bit, yes? Is that your concern? You had a physical reaction?

Again, I do not think they were hitting on me. I want to know if it means they find me attractive. That way, I will have confidence approaching single women.


Is this so hard for you people to understand?
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Old 02-16-2015, 11:34 AM
 
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For reference: I am 25 and these women were early 30s.

I was at a work gala last night, and two married women kissed me on the cheek when they greeted me. It was only the second time I had met them ever. The second one, after kissing me turned her cheek to me to ask for a kiss for herself, too. They are both married, but only the first one's husband was there.
I don't think they want to hook up with me or anything, but what I'm wondering is: were they just being nice, or do they find me good looking?

I am social but I have low self confidence (I'm able to hide it well in person), I just overthink things a lot afterwards.
She want you bro...but be careful. Especially if the hubby owns guns.

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Old 02-16-2015, 11:41 AM
 
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Again, I do not think they were hitting on me. I want to know if it means they find me attractive. That way, I will have confidence approaching single women.


Is this so hard for you people to understand?

If that's all it takes for you to have confidence approaching single women, then fine, these two married ones just couldn't help themselves and just HAD to kiss you, so utterly irresistible did they find you.

There. Now you should be confident to the point of being arrogant and can go forth and ask these silly questions no more. Sheesh!
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Old 02-16-2015, 11:50 AM
 
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Again, I do not think they were hitting on me. I want to know if it means they find me attractive. That way, I will have confidence approaching single women.


Is this so hard for you people to understand?
You protest to much. The married ladies planted a kiss and you were .... effected. Now you wonder what that means. You got a little rise, and you wonder if they had some sort of reaction to you.

I never said they were hitting on you. They kissed your cheeks. Your physical reaction is normal.
Own the boner.
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Old 02-16-2015, 12:21 PM
 
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Please don't feed his bloated ego. Read his past posts, they're all about how he supposedly has no self confidence yet every woman he encounters wants him. It's pure fantasy.
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Old 02-16-2015, 12:32 PM
 
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Not only do I kiss cheeks, I twist nipples when I greet someone. I like to keep people on their toes.
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Old 02-16-2015, 12:40 PM
 
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Okay, I answered this once but I didn't really answer it. Resounding NO. My guy wouldn't take well to me walking up and kissing another man on the cheek. That might sound bad but I love that big lug. He's mine and I want to keep him happy.
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Old 02-16-2015, 12:40 PM
 
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Not only do I kiss cheeks, I twist nipples when I greet someone. I like to keep people on their toes.
LOL
I look at their shoes first.
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