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Old 05-22-2016, 12:07 PM
 
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And the source of those children's problems will be their parents.

You need serious help.
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Old 05-22-2016, 12:25 PM
 
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And the source of those children's problems will be their parents.

You need serious help.
But for the most part I will work with the kids not the parents. I used to work (intern) school based and rarely dealt with the families.

Anyways I am doing what my therapist said I am slowly dying not texting any guys or using dating apps or anything... again life is trash
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Old 05-22-2016, 01:25 PM
 
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Most people aren't going to want to marry someone who thinks their life is trash. So good luck with that.
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Old 05-22-2016, 01:42 PM
 
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Most people aren't going to want to marry someone who thinks their life is trash. So good luck with that.
I don't tell guys my life is trash, I make them think I have a lot going for me and am super happy. Duh I'm not stupid.
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Old 05-22-2016, 01:48 PM
 
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OP, I'm curious. You've mentioned in the past that you have CP. Would you date a man with the same condition?
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Old 05-22-2016, 01:56 PM
 
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OP, I'm curious. You've mentioned in the past that you have CP. Would you date a man with the same condition?
I think so, depending on how bad it was. I'm not going to lie I have always felt kind of uncomfortable around other handicap people because for me it makes me have to face my own issues and I never want to. I also worry about if we both have mobility issues how I will have a child with them, how we will raise the child everything. So I guess it depends
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Old 05-23-2016, 01:45 PM
 
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Don't get why everyone is on the OP? If you try to make someone do something they don't want to do they will resent you for it. I personally don't like weddings either and find them boring but if it's a relative I'd attend. If she doesn't want to go, why get mad about it?
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Old 05-23-2016, 02:23 PM
 
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Don't get why everyone is on the OP? If you try to make someone do something they don't want to do they will resent you for it. I personally don't like weddings either and find them boring but if it's a relative I'd attend. If she doesn't want to go, why get mad about it?
You clearly haven't read the whole thread. It's bigger than the wedding at this point.
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Old 05-23-2016, 03:04 PM
 
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Don't get why everyone is on the OP? If you try to make someone do something they don't want to do they will resent you for it. I personally don't like weddings either and find them boring but if it's a relative I'd attend. If she doesn't want to go, why get mad about it?
It isn't the fact that the OP doesn't want to attend the wedding. That can be excused. It's the reason why.
She cannot bear to see anybody happy when she isn't, even those she considers to be friends.
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Old 05-23-2016, 03:30 PM
 
Location: Elsewhere
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I think so, depending on how bad it was. I'm not going to lie I have always felt kind of uncomfortable around other handicap people because for me it makes me have to face my own issues and I never want to. I also worry about if we both have mobility issues how I will have a child with them, how we will raise the child everything. So I guess it depends
You have CP and yet don't know the term is "handicapped"?

Now I too am wondering if you are for real.
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